Still searching for that elusive whatever it was I read that gave his wife's cause of death. I will have to give up now, I've been through a few months of my internet search history.
Anyway, came across this article again from 2015 and re-read it. It's worth a read if you want more insight into the lovely Helen and how she met Ian, but I thought this excerpt was interesting -
[FONT=open_sans]"So there are still those moments when my brain hasn't caught up with my new life, and those moments are very hard."[/FONT][FONT=open_sans]What's also been hard, she admits, is that writing the book made her re-examine her relationship with JS, "and that was really painful, because the rose-tinted specs came off.[/FONT]
[FONT=open_sans]"When you're married, you're so busy living it that you don't have time to examine it. But now I look back, and I'm suddenly faced with 'Ooh, he didn't behave very well there', 'Why didn't we talk about that?', and 'That really wasn't healthy'. And so I decided to include that in the book, because I felt it was very much a part of grieving.[/FONT]
[FONT=open_sans]"For some people it goes the other way," she adds. "Some people are married to absolute bastards, and then after they've died it's 'Oh, he was the most wonderful man in the world'. Whereas I'm certainly not saying he was a







, but he was very alpha male and very stubborn, and
I made excuses for him in a way that I wouldn't do now.[/FONT]
[FONT=open_sans]"It's been fascinating to me, and very painful. I just jumped back and thought 'Oh my God, I can't put this book out, leaving it as if everything in the garden was rosy. It wasn't.'"[/FONT]
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Read more:
http://www.cambridge-news.co.uk/hus...tory-27997055-detail/story.html#ixzz4ENPYnLv3
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