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This is my first post on this case but I have been following from Day 1 (what a challenge it has been!) Kudos to the Mods!
I originally came across the story on MSN's Canadian version, so rest assured Kyron's disappearance was announced both nationally and internationally (if one considers Ontario, Canada that is). When I heard, I quickly logged on to WS knowing you all would be on top of the situation.
Until Kyron got his own forum it was difficult to even consider posting a question or theory as the pages were moving so quickly and trying to find an answer to your question was almost impossible.
Now with the forum format I feel comfortable in adding a few thoughts to this sad situation.
If we are to assume that LE is following SM cell phone bings, it occurs to me that perhaps there might be another reason why SM is not so forthcoming to her whereabouts that fateful day (or LE knows is aware that this will only add more fuel to this fire). For someone (SM) who spends time in a gym and had a baby 18 months ago, she does not look to be in tip top shape (sorry if that sounds catty). I think it could be an excuse or cover to be away from her home in order to meet someone else. Maybe that someone lives on the island and this is why her cell phone has been pinged there. How much worse would she look right now if an affair was to be exposed? How would her husband feel finding this out in combination with having his little boy missing? It would also explain her need to announce on her FB page that she was heading out to the gym, so her "lover" could meet up with her. If she is not involved in Kyron's disappearance, she might be in desperate need of support from someone who she is reluctant to name or involve. Maybe he is married too?
Another story of interest to me and I am not sure if it ever panned out, was this suicidal man:
http://www.oregonlive.com/portland/index.ssf/2010/06/suicidal_man_leads_three_law_e.html#incart_rh
Was this angle ever totally sleuthed out? I can't find any follow up.
I want to mention that many times my kids tell me there will be or has been a talent show (or something along those lines) at their school during the day and not only did I not get an invite - I had no idea it was happening. I am not talking about the Christmas pageants - we get lots of notice on these. I think sometimes the school has activities that are just for the students and if you don't read every single word on the school's monthly calendar, you miss these. However, our school is very diligent in letting us parents know when a fund raising activity is happening - LOL I should add that I am not positive that the afternoon Talent Show was posted on the school marque as I heard the Science show had been. Now speaking of this Science Fair (as we call them in the north), if it was posted outside the school that this was an open house it might not only draw people from the community who normally would not be in the school (aunts, uncles, grandparents, etc.) but is an invitation for people without a valid reason to be anywhere near the school to come on inside, "everyone is welcome today!" This is mainly why I think Kyron's disappearance was a crime of opportunity - there were way too many unknown people (familiar and not so familiar) walking the halls of school that morning. Someone saw a chance and took it.
When I saw the search in the water down that long path leading from the Native whatever the building was (sorry too tired to look for the link) my thought was that LE was perhaps following a maintenance company's route and maybe someone who works for that company is contracted to cut the grass or pick up the garbage at both places on this day.
As for SM's captions on her FB photographs of both her daughter and Kyron, as a mother of two boys under the age of ten, I have to say first, any new clothing I buy them can be truly destroyed the first time they wear it and since they grow so fast many things either look too small or way too big on them and secondly I appreciate getting used clothing whenever I can (preferrably not already stained - LOL). I cannot speak for being a mother of a finally having a daughter in the house, but what I can say is that I love little girl's clothing and if I had a daughter I would doll her up because I can never do this with my boys. Being the first girl for SM - all of her clothes were probably brand new and with Mom being a girl herself, she might have enjoyed having her little girl look pretty. Also it sounds like the captions under her pictures have been taken totally out of context. I did not see the pictures but have heard the explanations - FWIW!
And last (sorry to be so long but I have a couple of weeks accumulation here) in my 30 plus years of studying and following true crime cases, sometimes the motive is just pure evil with no explanation other than urge and opportunity (think BTK) and it has nothing to do with the victim or their family, sadly it happens.
So believe me when I say as a parent of two small boys in school, I am more comfortable thinking that the SM did it (although I do not 100% believe this to be the case) because the alternative truly is horrifying!
JMO
I originally came across the story on MSN's Canadian version, so rest assured Kyron's disappearance was announced both nationally and internationally (if one considers Ontario, Canada that is). When I heard, I quickly logged on to WS knowing you all would be on top of the situation.
Until Kyron got his own forum it was difficult to even consider posting a question or theory as the pages were moving so quickly and trying to find an answer to your question was almost impossible.
Now with the forum format I feel comfortable in adding a few thoughts to this sad situation.
If we are to assume that LE is following SM cell phone bings, it occurs to me that perhaps there might be another reason why SM is not so forthcoming to her whereabouts that fateful day (or LE knows is aware that this will only add more fuel to this fire). For someone (SM) who spends time in a gym and had a baby 18 months ago, she does not look to be in tip top shape (sorry if that sounds catty). I think it could be an excuse or cover to be away from her home in order to meet someone else. Maybe that someone lives on the island and this is why her cell phone has been pinged there. How much worse would she look right now if an affair was to be exposed? How would her husband feel finding this out in combination with having his little boy missing? It would also explain her need to announce on her FB page that she was heading out to the gym, so her "lover" could meet up with her. If she is not involved in Kyron's disappearance, she might be in desperate need of support from someone who she is reluctant to name or involve. Maybe he is married too?
Another story of interest to me and I am not sure if it ever panned out, was this suicidal man:
http://www.oregonlive.com/portland/index.ssf/2010/06/suicidal_man_leads_three_law_e.html#incart_rh
Was this angle ever totally sleuthed out? I can't find any follow up.
I want to mention that many times my kids tell me there will be or has been a talent show (or something along those lines) at their school during the day and not only did I not get an invite - I had no idea it was happening. I am not talking about the Christmas pageants - we get lots of notice on these. I think sometimes the school has activities that are just for the students and if you don't read every single word on the school's monthly calendar, you miss these. However, our school is very diligent in letting us parents know when a fund raising activity is happening - LOL I should add that I am not positive that the afternoon Talent Show was posted on the school marque as I heard the Science show had been. Now speaking of this Science Fair (as we call them in the north), if it was posted outside the school that this was an open house it might not only draw people from the community who normally would not be in the school (aunts, uncles, grandparents, etc.) but is an invitation for people without a valid reason to be anywhere near the school to come on inside, "everyone is welcome today!" This is mainly why I think Kyron's disappearance was a crime of opportunity - there were way too many unknown people (familiar and not so familiar) walking the halls of school that morning. Someone saw a chance and took it.
When I saw the search in the water down that long path leading from the Native whatever the building was (sorry too tired to look for the link) my thought was that LE was perhaps following a maintenance company's route and maybe someone who works for that company is contracted to cut the grass or pick up the garbage at both places on this day.
As for SM's captions on her FB photographs of both her daughter and Kyron, as a mother of two boys under the age of ten, I have to say first, any new clothing I buy them can be truly destroyed the first time they wear it and since they grow so fast many things either look too small or way too big on them and secondly I appreciate getting used clothing whenever I can (preferrably not already stained - LOL). I cannot speak for being a mother of a finally having a daughter in the house, but what I can say is that I love little girl's clothing and if I had a daughter I would doll her up because I can never do this with my boys. Being the first girl for SM - all of her clothes were probably brand new and with Mom being a girl herself, she might have enjoyed having her little girl look pretty. Also it sounds like the captions under her pictures have been taken totally out of context. I did not see the pictures but have heard the explanations - FWIW!
And last (sorry to be so long but I have a couple of weeks accumulation here) in my 30 plus years of studying and following true crime cases, sometimes the motive is just pure evil with no explanation other than urge and opportunity (think BTK) and it has nothing to do with the victim or their family, sadly it happens.
So believe me when I say as a parent of two small boys in school, I am more comfortable thinking that the SM did it (although I do not 100% believe this to be the case) because the alternative truly is horrifying!
JMO