Afffinity:
I understand how you feel. Personally, I am usually against the DP too. I have to admit, though, that I am glad to see this.
I may feel differently if it actually comes down to her being executed. Perhaps by then my conflicting thoughts/beliefs/emotions concerning the execution of another human being will surface.
I feel a kind of relief that thay are seeking the DP. I think it's partly because, to me, it means they have evidence that will leave absolutely no doubt in my, or anyone's elses mind, that KC did this and did it deliberately. (I haven't been convinced about the premeditated and/or deliberate part). If she is going to get the DP, or even LWOP, I don't want to have any nagging doubts. (A selfish reason perhaps to be relieved - just being honest though.)
Another reason I feel good about the SA doing this, and I think this is true for many here, is her complete lack of concern for what happened to little Caylee. I mean, 31 days for God's sake! People cannot get past that, including me.
Finally, and this may be why you see people "celebrating." Through this whole thing, she has expected people to believe her ridiculous stories. She has maintained her "innocence" and refused to tell us what happened to her daughter. She refused a plea bargain and has plead "not guilty." She has shown no emotion concerning the death of her daughter and only freaked out and got upset when she realized she was caught. It just goes in the face of all our values, the importance of children, family, motherhood (the list could go on.)
I said finally before, but I really mean it this time-lol . . .
I really think people would feel differently toward KC if she had plead guilty, thrown herself on the mercy of the court. Instead, she's shown no remorse.
So, while I'm usually against the DP, unless it's for a mass murderer, serial killer, a Manson-family-unusually-heinous-type-of-crime, KC has made what she did heinous by:
1- Her lack of remorse and compete refusal to admit she did anything wrong, nevermind for killing Caylee. She's not been sorry for anything she's done. Not the stealing, the lying, what she's put her friends and family through.
2- She has gone against, I would say defiled is not too strong a word here, the thing most of us hold dearest. That is, the responsibility of a mother to her innocent child. How? By her partying and basically celebrating after little Caylee was gone. Not saying anything for 31 days and thinking she didn't have to answer for her child's whereabouts. She seems to think she does have to explain, and is not responsible, for what happened to her daughter. It's like it goes against nature somehow! Even most animals, all mammals I believe, take care of their children. Species would not survive if they didn't. The human species would not survive if parents (fathers too) did not care for, and ensure the safety of, their children.
All this, her attitude toward her crime, are just a huge slap in people's faces and they can not get past it, me included.
P.S. An additional factor is that everyone can see that she got plenty of help from her parents. It's not like she was some struggling young mother with no financial help or no one to babysit while she got a break.
She's really added insult to injury, so to speak.
Another soapbox guys, sorry --
After reading your post very carefully, I think what you've said is VERY, VERY true. It IS KC's absolute inability to acknowledge she has done ANYTHING wrong, AT ALL, that makes me so angry. I have spent some time going back to listening and readin things from the very beginning of this and she never even comes close to feelin she has any responsibility, guilt or remorse. The only time she even remotely comes close, is when she tells one of the LE detectives, is that her mother will never forgive her and she will never forgive herself for leaving Caylee with someone who she trusted and she was stupid for trusting another person with Caylee. That was it. You never hear her say another word about OMG, how could I believe this person. How could I trust her. Why didn't I see she was going to do something? how did I miss the signs, etc? Never. Even if she had only been truly guilty of trusting an evil monster, wouldn't you be blaming yourself in SOME way? I know I would. But not KC, oh no, not her. She did a GREAT job being Caylee's mother. But yet, even CA wanted to take custody of Caylee at some point. So, things weren't as rosy as CA and GA would want us to believe. This is one of the many reasons, I don't really think the DP is an unreasonable expectation, knowing now all we do added to her lack of any caring about her involvement, had it evfen only been what SHE said, leaving her with a wacko. (nonexistant wacko, but still) I know I'd still blame myself.
