1.02am: Male asks female to come here and chill and have a drink. Repeats to chill, have a drink. Male says that everything on him is good looking. Female: 'I am psycho drunk and not to test her.'
1.03.30am: Male: 'Shut up or I will make you come again. Female: 'Shut up or I will beat you up'.
1.14am: Female says she is going to 'go vampire on his *advertiser censored*'. Male says, 'Stay right there.'
1.26.51am: Male says, 'Stop that' and female says, 'Oh my god you are like a Christian.'
1.28.07am: Female says, 'Don't be a d*** to me.' ... male says, 'I don't want to like have to muscle you'.
1.29.06am: Male says, 'Just relax.' ... 'I don't like getting beaten up'.
1.36.19am: Male: 'Hey I didn't say you have to leave. I said that you have to stop beating me up.' Heated conversation.
And so on...
There are a lot of other things on that recording that point to the fact they weren't just engaging in polite missionary, that she herself was an active participant in the aggression and escalation, and that
several times he used several different techniques to try to calm her down.
The progression and escalation was almost predictable. He keeps asking her to stay, and she goes back to conversation, as though she is going to stay.
It escalates into a physical hot mess.
He doesn't dangle her over the balcony or threaten to kill her when he closes the door.
Had he thrown her in the hallway and she got hurt, the blamers would fault him for not locking her in a room somewhere safe where she couldn't harm herself or be harmed.
Had he locked her in a room, the blamers would say it is proof he intended to kidnap her and do bad things to her. He should have locked her somewhere more public.
Had he locked her somewhere more public and she gets hurt, then the blamers blame him for locking her there.
Somehow, in the midst of what escalated to violence, he is supposed to make the right choice.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...-final-struggle-plus-happened-afterwards.html