To go with your theory Katie, then how is she planning on ever getting her back? If she would not enlist LE's help, then basically you are saying she is just 'over it'? I mean, if someone took my child I would be down at the police station immediately. And if it had to do with drugs etc....so what? I sure would not chance getting charged with murder.
I have to agree. There comes a point when nothing else matters but the safety of the child.