Why would she pointedly say this to a mother who suspects her ex harmed her son? She knows (as we all know) that mr has supporters; people who are on the fence until it has been absolutely proven that he did something. (and there's nothing wrong with that)
I do fail to see the point of throwing that in the face of Dylan's mom, who cannot help to be very well aware of that.
The only thing I can say to this is those that refuse to point the finger at Mark do still love Dylan, and we do want him home more than anything.
I don't see it as throwing it in the face of Elaine. I would hope she's blissfully unaware of the hatred going on around her, although I doubt it. Regardless, while I personally am not to the point I'm ready to blame Mark Redwine, my hope is that Dylan is safe and that he comes home where he belongs.
It's not a one way street. If someone isn't willing to point the finger at Mark, it doesn't mean we don't care about Dylan and it sure as hell doesn't mean we are against Elaine. Good grief already.