katydid23
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As far as KB's schedule and daycare. I honestly see no reason for daycare since the father is right there and the grandma to help. She had quite a commute each day. Seriously, I would do the same thing if I was in her shoes. I don't think she had any inclination that he was a danger to their daughter or her for that matter. Obviously, if she did, I would hope she would have made other arrangements. MOO
As the child grew, KB might have wanted her to go and socialize with other kids. Staying home with Grandma every day is great during infancy and early toddlerhood. But going to preschool and playing with other kids is a nice change for them too.
And we don't know what KB was seeing or feeling as her child matured. She might not have been in total agreement with the way the F family fed her and dealt with misbehavior. She was only 15 months, so not much of an issue yet. But by 18 months we begin to see 'bratty' behavior in our little ones. What if KB found out that the F family used spanking as their 'go to' remedy?
I am not saying they were a danger. I am just saying that parents are very sensitive to child rearing choices. And KB might have begun second guessing her decision to have her baby girl spending so much time there... ???