She had a post, not sure if it’s been deleted? Where she talked about how difficult and mean she had been - due to her illness- Lupus (not because she’s normally difficult or mean) and that she had given CW many “Outs” but he stayed and helped her through everything.
Anyone still have a screenshot of this? I will check to see if I took one. I went straight to her SM when I heard, before he confessed so not sure if I screenshotted or not.
helped her through everything.
that would result in profound feelings of fear and rage being abandoned might it not
might that not indicate a fear of not being able to handle things without her rock- her core foundation - when perceived emotional foundations are pulled out from under someone in any context the resulting emotion is typically fear and anger
the best husband and father ever ever
relentless proclamations (after 6 years of marriage with two kids) stuck me as unique they were past the limerence phase
it started to sound like self affirmation that was the fear of losing -- the need to say it aloud
most people in that age group are busy with kids -- their own stuff - would you all remain interested in hearing anything over and over and over
it is indicative imo of profound neediness emotional neediness (if that was the issue speculation based on on Thrive page )
that degree of neediness might result in profound feelings of being left.
fear often results (as does emotional dependency) in strange things
anyone here at six years in a marriage are you guys endlessly telling everyone how in love in you are
limerence fades in around half a year or so (longer in high school maybe)
it is similar to when someone finally says I love you - it often a craving to hear it back
to possibly find out that rock is leaving in conjunction with someone else (if that happened or was found out recently) that is pretty deep wound.
What do wounded people do? Often strike back --
your gonna devastate me - I shall do the same thing to u kinda of thing
it is often called revenge
pure speculation and do what we do toss out possibilities