Grieving is one thing. Taking time to come to terms with something that feels unacceptable is one thing.
Bashing a murder victim in such vicious terms over and over is quite another. Trashing said victim that your own son murdered, along with your grandchildren that were stuffed in oil tanks, and including the unborn one he didn't apparently want, is yet another. Excusing your son of every single thing he's ever done to disappoint you and blaming the victim, from the point where you boycotted their wedding all the way to straight out saying she strangled her babies as you called her "dangerous" to the media, is another again. This isn't a reaction, it's a pattern.
And doing so publicly through disgusting low budget podcasters and leaking absolutely horrific details of an autopsy where your DIL was brutalized and grandchildren... I can't even... not to mention the fact that said podcasters you had write to the judge on your behalf actually used those details to laugh at the thought of some evil form of justice being served to your terrified, dying, DIL all to try to defend your son, is despicable and absolutely unforgivable.
All MOO. I need to borrow
@nwmouse 's teeny tiny
moo .