Still Missing CO - Suzanne Morphew, 49, Chaffee Co, 10 May 2020 *arrest* #93

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Question. JL tried to save his hide. He deleted everything he could and laid low. He failed to fill in many key data points for MDW, when timing was most critical.

Is it possible he did join Suzanne on WA? But 7 months later he didn't feel compelled to volunteer that? (I think he may have said that he didn't think they had met up on WA that day -- true? Or more CYA?)

LE would've had a headstart with JL's cooperation, pinpointing to her last contact on Saturday. Remember when LE said something about pinning Suzanne's last contact later (JL, afternoon) than earlier (SO, morning) --

So... IF JL and Suzanne did have a virtual rendezvous, immediately post proof-of-life selfie, what if THAT'S what Barry saw? What if Barry had cameras throughout "his" house -- monitoring everybody's virginity/fidelity and that's why he flew home?

Trail cam facing the patio, mini camera in longhorn heads, spare cameras in a location Suzanne felt safe-enough, like an upstairs bedroom.

Thing is, JL could solve that question. Bur my guess, he's exhausted from covering his precious asterisk.

If LE doesn't know it, would he ever volunteer/admit to hooking up in a daughter's bedroom?

Suzanne had to know she had to be careful, as she was sure he had cameras. IMO this would solve that.

She wouldn't think he'd put cameras there. That would be just too inappropriate, too creepy -- two things he isn't above, turns out.

Could Suzanne have been upstairs when he was tearing through walls? (And that's how the syringe sheath got messed up with the sheets?)

If Suzanne ducks and runs, maybe her bedroom was her only shot at 911. (It was 2:45... she rides every day. She'd been communicating with JL for hours. IMO she'd never head out on a solo ride without a fully charged cellphone. Which would put her phone where her charger was, on her nightstand. She outpaces Barry, fueled by adrenaline and horror.

He ramrods the door because he can't have her calling 911.

There he rips the phone from her, the phone from the wall, and holds her in a headlock until the sedative does what he intended it to. There's your second half of premeditation (first half, loading a tranq dart). How long a hold would that be? Didn't the expert say 7-8 minutes?

Very different image than young jock Barry carrying young sick Suzanne....

JMO
 
Supposing the State did get a bombshell tidbit that slam dunks the whole thing, at what point is the State required to notify the defense of the new testimony in Colorado? I imagine these rules vary wildly from state to state.

If there's something incredibly incriminating on one of the dozens of hard drives already handed over, obviously the defense already has it and the State can quietly giggle to themselves. We just have to wonder how much truth Barry told E&N.
^^rbbm

Yes, each state writes its own criminal procedure rules.

Colo. R. Crim. P. 16, linked below, governs Discovery & Procedure before trial, and provides that the prosecuting attorney perform their disclosure obligation:

".... as soon as practicable but not later than 21 days after the defendant's first appearance at the time of or following the filing of charges, except that portions of such reports claimed to be nondiscoverable may be withheld pending a determination and ruling of the court under Part III but the defense must be notified in writing that information has not been disclosed."

Subsequent to the compliance standard above, the prosecutor has a Continuing Duty to Disclose ".... if a party discovers additional material or information subject to disclosure, including the names and addresses of any additional witnesses who have become known or the materiality of whose testimony has become known to the district attorney...."

Under the Rule, there are only two matters not subject to disclosure: Work product and Informants.

Rule 16 - Discovery and Procedure Before Trial, Colo. R. Crim. P. 16 | Casetext Search + Citator
 
Yes and in most states domestic violence is "assault" and is evaluated by the prosecutors office for the batterer's criminal history, photographs of visible injuries or property damages, 911 tapes, medical records, witness statements, prior history of domestic abuse, etc. In some states verbal abuse or domestic or family abuse is chargeable as harassment if the verbal abusers threatens bodily harm, causes fear, etc. but is generally a misdemeanor charge. Stalking is also a charge that is sometimes used in domestic or family abuse cases. So under the "umbrella" of domestic or family abuse there are a number of charges that prosecutors can charge depending on how the state laws are defined. In this case it was a sentence enhancer...if Barry were found guilty and the judge felt the act of domestic violence was supported the sentence could be increased. Here's alittle bit about Colorado domestic violence laws: 2016 Colorado Revised Statutes :: Title 18 - :: Criminal Code :: Article 6 - :: Offenses Involving the Family Relations :: Part 8 - :: Domestic Violence :: § 18-6-801. Domestic violence - sentencing and this lawyer's blog lays out the enhancer: Domestic Violence Enhancement: What Does It Mean in Colorado?

Just as an fyi - In Connecticut there is a new law that expands the definition of domestic violence to include coercive control. “Jennifer’s Law” was named after Jennifer Dulos and Jennifer Magnano, two Ct women, who were tragically killed by their husbands as they were attempting divorce. Maybe this new law will spur other states to reevaluate their DV definitions. BBM below

A closer look at CT's new domestic violence law: Jennifer's law | fox61.com
The law is more than 40 pages long and includes a number of new measures to help domestic violence victims, but perhaps the most profound piece of the new law is the expanded definition of domestic violence to include “coercive control.” It’s defined in the law as “a pattern of behavior that in purpose or effect unreasonably interferes with a person’s free will and personal liberty.” That can include isolating, controlling, regulating, monitoring, threatening behavior, or financial abuse.

“Coercive control and controlling behavior, in general, is the crux of domestic violence," said Karen Foley O'Connor, Executive Director of The Network Against Domestic Abuse. "What’s good about this bill is that we now have [an] agreed-upon language to define it here in the state.”
 
Just as an fyi - In Connecticut there is a new law that expands the definition of domestic violence to include coercive control. “Jennifer’s Law” was named after Jennifer Dulos and Jennifer Magnano, two Ct women, who were tragically killed by their husbands as they were attempting divorce. Maybe this new law will spur other states to reevaluate their DV definitions. BBM below

A closer look at CT's new domestic violence law: Jennifer's law | fox61.com
The law is more than 40 pages long and includes a number of new measures to help domestic violence victims, but perhaps the most profound piece of the new law is the expanded definition of domestic violence to include “coercive control.” It’s defined in the law as “a pattern of behavior that in purpose or effect unreasonably interferes with a person’s free will and personal liberty.” That can include isolating, controlling, regulating, monitoring, threatening behavior, or financial abuse.

“Coercive control and controlling behavior, in general, is the crux of domestic violence," said Karen Foley O'Connor, Executive Director of The Network Against Domestic Abuse. "What’s good about this bill is that we now have [an] agreed-upon language to define it here in the state.”
We have something v similar here in the UK too.
 
I wasn't so sure I was on-board with the idea of BM swapping out the SIM card on the bobcat, but I am now.

Check out the first line of the skid steer data, which is from 5/4. The odometer is at zero! I think this indicates that a new SIM card was installed, as we haven't heard anything about Barry buying a new bobcat. This would seem to imply that he had 2 SIM cards. I doubt that the backhoe attachment had a SIM card, as it is just an attachment, and probably has no computer in it. But I do think he somehow got a hold of another one.

The first time he started the bobcat after swapping out the SIM card on 5/4 was in a field behind Anytime Fitness at 13:08. I don't think we can determine where the bobcat was when the card was swapped, as we don't have the skid steer data before this time, but it seems possible to me that he drove to that field and then swapped it out. Perhaps a practice run?

I also noticed on the last line of the skid steer data, where it says "other" for the message type as JustTrish has mentioned previously, the GPS quality column drops to a 1. Everywhere else in the data it is a 3. I'm wondering if that happens if the SIM card is removed. Also, maybe that is why the data trail ends there, as he put in a new SIM card while at DSI (IMO). I was thinking how crazy it was that at the critical time frame that afternoon, we weren't shown any skid steer data. Well, maybe, there is none! Putting in his 2nd SIM card would explain that lack of data. He does his disposal that evening, and then puts the original SIM card back in. All IMO.
 
As noted in my OP, I was citing from memory but after looking at the timeline in the MEDIA thread, I was off about the time BM rescheduled the blade on the bobcat replaced. Nonetheless, I think it would have been reasonable if BM was leaving work around 11 AM that he'd initially plan to stop by DSi around noon before heading to PP.

We know that BM sent MG home from the river house/beach project around 11 AM -- citing he was going to have recreation time with SM. Evidence shows BM did not go to DSi but instead stopped at Tailwinds (Poncha Springs).

I think somewhere between Tailwinds and arriving PP, BM decided soup could wait because he first wanted to hike down to the river behind his house to retrieve his game webcams. There was never a Turkey. I believe after BM stored the cameras in the garage, he went inside, had some soup, a few words with SM, and left again headed to DSi for the blade change at 2 pm.


CO - Suzanne Morphew, 49, Chaffee County, 10 May 2020 , MEDIA,MAPS,TIMELINE *NO DISCUSSION*

Text messages:
9:50am BM: Wanna go on a hike?
9:52am SM: where? (no response). Later on, asking about summer tires on range rover?
10:36am SM: Wanna meet to hike? 12 minutes later at
10:48am BM: No, coming home.
SM: Get Hot tub stuff.

He went to Tail winds property around 11am then went home around 11:30am to eat veggie soup with Suzanne.

At 11:50am-12:50am, Morphew's phone is pinged near the river behind his home. Investigators asked why this was, his response was, "I was looking for a turkey that MM had shot some time ago."

Morphew allegedly left [PP] around 1:30pm makes a few calls checks out a job at Kim Gyms in Salida.

At 1:42pm
Suzanne's last "proof of life" was a photo she sent to her lover on LinkedIn, according to FBI agent. She was out sunbathing. Shortly before she had messaged him saying “Guess who’s alone again??”

At 1:55pm door opens at DSI (Diesslin Structures, Inc.) in Salida & there is surveillance video as well.
At 2pm Morphew was getting his blade replaced on his bobcat.

At 2:03pm while Morphew was away Suzanne was sending LinkedIn messages to Jeff Libler. Investigators showed a picture Suzanne sent to Jeff to Barry, he said she "looked drunk" & she had "drunk eyes" Grusing says it's the last 'proof of life' for Suzanne.

At 2:11pm
Suzanne told JL to get on What's Up App. She messaged him on LinkedIn. Exhibit #59: The photo is shown in the courtroom, Suzanne smiling.
Truck GPS coordinates show Barry's truck goes into park at 2:43:59.
Phone coordinates show he walks around the house. You can hear a pin drop in the courtroom as tension is high. Agent Grusing asked what he was doing outside. Morphew responded, "I shoot chipmunks. I have shot 85 chipmunks."

Then returned home around 2:44pm as she was sunbathing & sending photos of herself to her lover, Jeff Libler.

At 2:47pm
, BM's phone goes into airplane mode. Suzanne's phone is getting messages from her lover, Libler asking about the weather. meanwhile, BM says he was moving around the house shooting chipmunks.

And you know defense exhibits submitted into evidence have ZERO traces listed for Barry's truck from 10:13 until 1:55. Wonder why that is? Every section they have in evidence jumps right over that time frame. I think they know that is a crucial time. His truck does not do what he said he did. I think that very time frame could be what shows premedication (not that some other things don't). If he said he was coming home, but didn't even pull in the drive way and then wandered the woods, not having lunch with suzanne, not sunbathing, but instead doing something so important he had to come home and move the bobcat blade change back a bit.. then he's calling her as he's heading toward DSI.. seems to me he needed to call her because he didn't see her during his veggie soup lunch and sunbathing.. maybe he wanted to make sure she wasn't on to him. Then the text "did you leave".. The defense includes all of Saturday morning and even the door open/close events that night and the backing up of the truck from the garage to the side of the house later on at 9 something.. but zero from 10:13 to 1:55.
 
I wasn't so sure I was on-board with the idea of BM swapping out the SIM card on the bobcat, but I am now.

Check out the first line of the skid steer data, which is from 5/4. The odometer is at zero! I think this indicates that a new SIM card was installed, as we haven't heard anything about Barry buying a new bobcat. This would seem to imply that he had 2 SIM cards. I doubt that the backhoe attachment had a SIM card, as it is just an attachment, and probably has no computer in it. But I do think he somehow got a hold of another one.

The first time he started the bobcat after swapping out the SIM card on 5/4 was in a field behind Anytime Fitness at 13:08. I don't think we can determine where the bobcat was when the card was swapped, as we don't have the skid steer data before this time, but it seems possible to me that he drove to that field and then swapped it out. Perhaps a practice run?

I also noticed on the last line of the skid steer data, where it says "other" for the message type as JustTrish has mentioned previously, the GPS quality column drops to a 1. Everywhere else in the data it is a 3. I'm wondering if that happens if the SIM card is removed. Also, maybe that is why the data trail ends there, as he put in a new SIM card while at DSI (IMO). I was thinking how crazy it was that at the critical time frame that afternoon, we weren't shown any skid steer data. Well, maybe, there is none! Putting in his 2nd SIM card would explain that lack of data. He does his disposal that evening, and then puts the original SIM card back in. All IMO.

I really want to know if the SIM card is possibly back under that blade or maybe it's easily accessible when the blade is off? I will look into that. I think the mention of the bolts near the skid steer also could be something.

Another thought I had was maybe the "other" is the blade change, but I think the skid steer would likely be off at that point and not sure it would register any data if it wasn't turned on? Maybe the SIM removal does trigger something because it tries to connect but the signal is low? Not sure if a blade change would trigger a data point on the SIM.
 
Everyone LE talked to during the course of the investigation is on the potential witness list included early in the trial or so it appeared to me. I believe the judge set a deadline for final prosecution witness list to be followed within a few weeks by the defense list. A great amount of people they interviewed won't be prosecution witnesses IMO.
If I were making lists he might be on the defense witness list so could get cross examined by prosecution but I doubt he's on the prosecution list.
^^rsbbm

The potential witness list is required disclosed early (discovery) that the defense investigators may contact them and conduct their own inquiries.

While I agree the prosecution may eliminate some witnesses they are absolutely certain will not be called as witnesses, I disagree they have any duty to consolidate their witness list for the convenience of the defense -- including eliminating family such as TN from the prosecution witness list. The burden to prove the defendant guilty is on the state!

We saw the same request by the defense for the preliminary hearing where E & N complained when they received the witness list but that doesn't mean it's an alleged violation (as they like to repeat) even though the prosecution didn't call all the witnesses on their list at the preliminary hearing. MOO

ETA: fix broken quote
 
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I can see how a young person faced with such an overwhelming dilemma may well choose the path of least resistance.

For one thing, practicalities usually come into play for most unhappy domestic situations. Anyone who says “but why didn’t the person just leave?” irritates me. Unless the person is totally financially independent, for one thing there is often nowhere to go other than a charity refuge or a temporary sofa. That reality can be a persuasive argument that things aren’t quite so bad and can be tolerated.

Added to this case, we’re talking about a person who hasn’t grown into adulthood yet let alone having independence of any kind, plus she very probably loves her father and wants to believe the best.

I do wish the trio presented a less joyful tableau entering the court but I was taken by something Lauren said in her summary video of the hearing before last. She said MM2 at one point broke down in tears and was inconsolable, which I think was telling. She’s probably keeping deep feelings buried, but now and then they may out. One day I believe the scales will fall and she will need to confront the truth emotionally.

Ofc Lauren also said that Barry had a similar episode and his lawyer made a show of comforting him. I suspect the motive behind that boo hoo show was very different.

All JMO.

I think we can see clearly the reasons Suzanne didn't leave. He controlled the money, even her inheritance money. I typically agree that money gained is "family money", but it seems there was an agreement and her money was tied up in that house that was going to sell. One of her texts from fall of 2019 mentions holding off until the sale of the house possibly in January 2020. Seems that was pushed back and we know it didn't sell until June when conveniently for Barry, she was gone. She was fairly isolated from her long time friends, her family and likely a support system she would have if she left him. Her treatments were in Colorado, her girls were in Colorado.. she was stuck, but I see finally having hope that there would be an end and she could leave with maybe her inheritance and just go. I don't see any texts suggesting she was trying to take him for all he was worth.. just the opposite. She spoke of a simple life, not monetary things. She just didn't make it to that freedom she so longed for. :(

For the girls, I see maybe some financial need or hold out because if they don't support them then they alienate their only parent left, and it seems maybe Barry's mom and that's it as far as family close by. There seems to be a divide from Suzanne's family that is likely a result of Barry before even Suzanne was gone.. I think fear.. if they allow themselves to believe he killed their mom, then if they make him mad, could he kill them? I think many complex things probably are at play and I think deep down they both might at some point if not already questions "is it possible?" If they voice that now and he walks.. then where does that leave them?
 
Oh man, that never occurred to me.

If her vehicle showed ANY activity at all around that time, it's absolutely damning.

We already have two data points showing that Barry was outside when he should have been sleeping, and one of them (phone) may put him in the area of the bike.

But her doors opening would solidify the bike dump.

Best part is he sealed that fate when he told agents she asked him to take the bike out sometime on Saturday and he did. I think he said that so it wasn't suspicious that his prints are on the bike and helmet. But what he didn't consider is when did he do that? That trunk opening will be telling.
 
And you know defense exhibits submitted into evidence have ZERO traces listed for Barry's truck from 10:13 until 1:55. Wonder why that is? Every section they have in evidence jumps right over that time frame. I think they know that is a crucial time. His truck does not do what he said he did. I think that very time frame could be what shows premedication (not that some other things don't). If he said he was coming home, but didn't even pull in the drive way and then wandered the woods, not having lunch with suzanne, not sunbathing, but instead doing something so important he had to come home and move the bobcat blade change back a bit.. then he's calling her as he's heading toward DSI.. seems to me he needed to call her because he didn't see her during his veggie soup lunch and sunbathing.. maybe he wanted to make sure she wasn't on to him. Then the text "did you leave".. The defense includes all of Saturday morning and even the door open/close events that night and the backing up of the truck from the garage to the side of the house later on at 9 something.. but zero from 10:13 to 1:55.
^^bbm

As you also know, this case isn't reliant on the truck evidence alone because it's also BM's phone evidence that places him in the woods behind the house, allegedly looking for a turkey. (Personally, I find vehicle telematics unreliable compared to cell phone evidence and why I cite the phone records and not the telematics).

After the Bobcat blade was replaced at DSi, it's also the phone evidence that shows the estimated 9 unanswered calls to SM until BM finally sends SM the text asking if she left.

As for BM doing a secret blade change, I'd rethink that! Probable but not plausible that BM unloaded the Bobcat from the trailer, etc., all the while his phone showed he's down near the river. That is unless you think BM made a deal with the chipmunks to impersonate him for an hour or so along the river so he could secretly change the blade! ;)
 
Barry Morphew Redacted Arrest Affidavit – Find Suzanne Morphew

I have noticed, going as far back as the original “oh Suzanne” video, how rarely BM actually says Suzanne’s name. Although my math may be one or two counts off on the she’s and her’s, it is not off on the number of times he utters the name, “Suzanne”.

Referring only to above link, beginning on page 20 of page 129 through to the end of page 26, (Other Statements by Barry) Barry’s actual quotes (“…”), when he referred to Suzanne, I count the word “her” used by him 19 times. He used the word “she” 32 times, and her name? Exactly 1 time.

Oh yeah. She’s also “the lump” once, and more generously, “my wife” 3 times.

Appears to me, judging only by this one example, how little value BM holds for Suzanne.

All just JMO

Yes, very good observations @TwinkieDefense..BM holds little value for Suzanne and does not want to personalize her by using her name. I think he is trying to create a distance between them so he doesn't feel any remorse. JMOO
 
^^bbm

As you also know, this case isn't reliant on the truck evidence alone because it's also BM's phone evidence that places him in the woods behind the house, allegedly looking for a turkey. (Personally, I find vehicle telematics unreliable compared to cell phone evidence and why I cite the phone records and not the telematics).

After the Bobcat blade was replaced at DSi, it's also the phone evidence that shows the estimated 9 unanswered calls to SM until BM finally sends SM the text asking if she left.

As for BM doing a secret blade change, I'd rethink that! Probable but not plausible that BM unloaded the Bobcat from the trailer, etc., all the while his phone showed he's down near the river. That is unless you think BM made a deal with the chipmunks to impersonate him for an hour or so along the river so he could secretly change the blade! ;)

No I was saying he moved the blade change time back. He came home instead of going to get the blade changed at the original time... not that he changed it again at the house. I think the reason for the truck not being in the driveway is so she doesn't know he is home. If he pulled all the way in, she would know he was home. I suspect she had no idea he was even in the woods doing anything during that time. I think it would be less incriminating if he pulled in where he normally parks and then headed down in the woods. He could say she knew he was home and this is what he always did. Why would he not want her to know he was home after he just told her he was heading home? Then he told investigators he had lunch with her. He was up to no good during this time and needed to keep the truck further way so she didn't spot him.
 
The more I think about it, the more I'm convinced BM may have utilized MM2's truck, if only to pull the trailer to the dump spot. Even though he was tampering with wires and attempting to hamper telematics, I think if I were headed out to hide a body I'd go for the car I knew with 100% certainty didn't have tracking. I also don't think he would have risked anyone seeing and identifying his truck. I've been looking at his trailer hitch in the photos wondering if he could have swapped the receiver hitch out and used it on her RR if she didn't have one. Could this be the reason for the slight truck repositioning that occurs at 9:25? To hook the trailer up to a different car?

Edit: something else I noticed in the AA: says the Bobcat was found by LE in a position that seemed to suggest it had been used to unhitch the trailer from a vehicle. Which absolutely makes no sense- we have a flat bed trailer and when it's empty I have zero issues unhitching it from my car all by myself. And I'm a very small woman.
 
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Let me preface what I have to say by reiterating the fact that MM1 and MM2 are very much victims in this case. However, and without victim blaming, it is important to analyze the Morphew family dynamic and the role this may play in BM’s upcoming trial.
That being said, I agree totally with what you have said here, @Seattle1. I think MM1 was Daddy’s girl long before this family structure began to erode. It’s very common for a child in a family to be closer to one parent than another. We all have seen cases where the loved ones or even close friends of the accused firmly refuse to accept that he/she could ever be capable of committing such an heinous act. As they say, “Love is blind.” For someone you idolize to do something awful is the ultimate act of betrayal.
That leaves MM2 in a terrible position. MM1 has been away at college while MM2 was home watching her parents’ relationship implode. She encouraged her mother to get away from this toxic environment. She offered to go with her. She stated that she did not want to be home with them all summer while they fought.
Now, Mom is gone. MM2 is alone. She is young, still in high school. After BM’s arrest, she goes to live with her sister, her Dad’s biggest champion. She is forced to make a choice between speaking up for her Mom and isolating herself from her remaining parent and only sibling, or she stands together with them to put up the false front of a tight, bonded, and loving family. Remember, as bad as he is, BM is still her Dad. What guilt she must feel. I feel very sad for this child, for both of them.
Fellow WSers, what would you do?

@OldCop, I am re-posting my thoughts on this exact subject. MM2 is between a rock and a hard place. So sad, see below:

ITA Lyanna. Very difficult, risky and lonely to be the odd man out. MM2, I would believe, is probably terrified of her father and rightly so. With it out in the open that MM2 supported her mother by telling her she thinks she should divorce BM and get a restraining order, that has to be unnerving for MM2. After all, if BM was indeed responsible for Suzanne's disappearance/death (which I believe wholeheartedly he was), MM2 is smart enough to realize that she could be next if not on TEAM DAD/BARE. BM is capable of anything and that in and of itself is frightening..Also, she is/was a minor without her own income / freedom to escape.
Just my opinion as always;)
 
Investigators: Burning Remnants Of Underground Coal Mines Are Possible Cause Of Marshall Fire

This Is the One Colorado Fire That Snow Can't Extinguish


Because of the 2019 fire in Decker's south of Salida, and the 2018 coal seam fire west of Salida, I would imagine that BM was aware through his firefighter training of these types of mines and vents that can be hidden from view. Not only being an avid hunter, but trained in the forests through firefighter training with emphasis on mine hazards for firefighters as well as the potential for fire ignition from an underground mine, the likelihood of BM using a mine as a dumping spot seems more of a potential than burying a body in May in that altitude (frozen ground). Denver and surrounding areas do not turn on irrigation until mid April depending on temperatures and higher elevations are later than that if they have irrigation at all. Some areas in higher elevations would still be very cold in May at night.

I do not think they will find her body before trial and not for years to come if ever. Please make me eat those words!

I also do not believe that he ever thought that it would come to him murdering SM, but he had always developed a scenario in his mind, going over the details, incase he was ever backed into a corner. SM having an affair, if he could prove it, would have been a benefit to him to prove he was not the "bad guy" in the relationship. He probably mistakenly thought that if he could prove an affair or drug/alcohol use, that somehow he would pay less for child support or alimony or get custody of MM2. He would look like the hero and SM would not be believed. Too bad for BM finding out later that Colorado is a 50/50 state that does not take infidelity into account during proceedings. BM would have been forced to pay SM alimony for at least 10-20 years based on the length of their marriage and child support for MM2 until they were 19 since SM gave up her outside career to raise the children. ALL tax records and business dealings would be open for discovery if he fought her on alimony. Lawyers fees on both sides would be paid by him if he chose to fight it. The 2 choices being pay full amount leaving BM to live below way below his standards or fight it. Think about all of BM possible shady business practices. Paying in cash for everything is a red flag. Having your own business in Colorado as an LLC allows you to expense a lot. The talk of cash piles, burying cash, paying workers in cash, shady business practices, shoddy work. Investigations into his true financial picture I hope will bring the guilty verdict that most of us are hoping for.

There is more here than just money although that is at the forefront. The unraveling of BM, the lies, the things that keep him awake at night (not to be confused with guilt but strategy only), to be considered a criminal to all but his wife still looks like an angel?? To pay her thousands a month and live in squalor with your personal and business relationships all torn to bits? He loves the attention of the girls, SD, lawyers etc. He feels vindicated and justified that SM had an affair and looks like the bad guy to his daughters and his family and is eating this up.

BM was backed into a corner when SM would not bend and had made up her mind to leave. When he knew she meant it, he extinguished the problem.
 
The timing is all too coincidental for me.

Currently I'm squared -- the clean, quiet Bobcat was staged. He wanted it found clean.

I believe him when he says he's cheap.

I think it's possible that dogs hit on sites where Barry worked after MDW because he put his original blade back on -- getting a new blade was staging, he wanted to be seen --

Wherever Barry keeps his stuff, I'd like to know if a nice shiny new blade sat or sits, while he wears out the one he used in the commission of tampering with/concealing a body.

I bet Barry knows how to change a blade.

JMO
 
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