Goldenseal
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OMG your post just scared the h*!! out of me! I’m scared to look at that website. And if I ever disappear or have some weird accident please someone tell LE to suspect my husband. Well they probably do that anyway 38 years...I applaud you! I have this hopeful idea that it might get rough in the middle but then it gets better as the years go on. I hope I’m right!
Oh, poor Lilypad!
I didn't mean to terrify you! There are many hundreds of posters on chumplady.com whose spouses DIDN'T try to kill them . . . only a few had that experience! But a lot of them have gone through h***. The website is a learning experience for blindsided spouses who have been dumped with no warning. It's instructive, not just to people getting divorced, but for the descriptions of what some spouses will do to destroy the person they are divorcing. You wouldn't believe it. But I've been reading there for a couple of years, just to get a take on the psychology of some of these crazy spouses -- it has helped me understand people better. Read enough there, and you'll have a taste of what can happen, and it is very relevant to these missing women cases.