and not too soon to buy more real estate perhaps?Priorities.
This is about priorities.
BM's vows were to SM, not to the electric company, or the college bursar's office, or to the Chaffee County Tax Assessor, or to any other financial institution.
And being the apparent "traditionalist" he is, those vows he exchanged with SM no doubt included the words, "for richer, for poorer," as well as "in sickness and in health." (Although, perhaps BM misheard that last bit and thought the minister said "in wealth," instead).
Question: What matters most when your spouse is gravely ill?
I would argue it ain't your kid's next tuition payment.
If your kid's in college, here's the conversation you have:
"Sorry, Junior, but we're not going to be able to help you out with those expenses right now. You're going to need to learn how to be self-sufficient, starting right now. Time to launch! We'll help you apply for student loans. You can get a job to help with your expenses. But right now, Mom's health trumps your education. I know you love her, too, which is why I know you'll understand our position and agree this is what needs to happen now."
This is about BM's actions being an indicator of what matters most to him in this world.
His wife goes missing, and it's "too soon" to get the word out to reporters about her disappearance.
Too soon!
Not too soon to get those guardianship papers filed back in Indiana, though.
Not too soon to get that real estate sold in Indy, either. Cha-Ching!
Not too soon to get those cash registers ringing for the Gimme Fund. Cha-Ching! Cha-Ching!
"For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also."
SM should have been BM's most precious treasure.
Looking at his actions in the wake of her disappearance, I'm not seeing any indication whatsoever that she was his heart's treasure.
Priorities.
JMO.
JMO