Crystal S., Haleigh's mother #3

[SeriouslySearching]

Don't want to quote TiChad's post as it is so long...but ONE thing contradicts all those ASSUMPTIONS about Crystal...

LE knows ALL the facts available in this case, including every single thing that posters here have found out about Crystal PLUS most likely hundreds of more details about this woman's life. What have they (PCSO, FBI, and others) said about their very extensive investigation of this case?

"MISTY IS THE KEY"!!!!!!!!

I don't see where all those are assumptions about Crystal. I think several can be backed up by video and photos plus her own words. Other things can be backed up by court documents and from other places.

They didn't say "Misty is the key" in this morning's article. Hmmmm...

 

[CHICANA]

Those of us that have lost a child can relate to the pain and suffering. I for one almost tore up the hospital in my initial grief. I could of been classified insane for at least 2 yr because of my pain. I could not of gone on so quickly, nor thought of anything else. MY whole life changed. I no longer saw her beautifull face or heard her sweet voice. I would wake up in the morning expecting her here. I look at this mom and can't imagine her streangth and direction in regards to the situation. I am not at her side and have not spoken to her to determine her grief I am just a witness to her actions and words and those in my opinion speak loud enough.

I'm sorry and you're right.
One doesn't propose at Chili's, get married, go to the tattoo parlor or have one's truck customized within days weeks or even months after the loss or possible loss of a child and we should be suspicious of anybody that could do such things.

 

[CHICANA]

If Crystal was truly concerned for her sons safety, she could of very easily reported to the proper authorities privately. She did not need to going on national tv, she did not need to post pics on the internet. This is all a ploy IMO to gain sympathy to get more donations.

People want to give Crystal a pass on her drug use because she admitted she had done drugs in the past. Well she isnt admitting anything, just a few days ago on Nancy Grace when she told everyone Ron beat her all the time he also gave her drugs. So she is setting it up to it was not may fault I took drugs, Ron beat me and forced me to ingest those drugs. Yet she is not out of the drug lifestyle based on pictures on her myspace account, and based on her fiances record - wonder how they will twist that around to be Rons fault, maybe go for PTSD. MOO

She did go to the proper authorities and this wouldn't be out in the open if not for Haleigh's disappearance.
Had all this been out in the open before I don't think Ron would have been granted custody.
Let the sun shine in on the family court.

 

[raeann]

I don't see where all those are assumptions about Crystal. I think several can be backed up by video and photos plus her own words. Other things can be backed up by court documents and from other places.

They didn't say "Misty is the key" in this morning's article. Hmmmm...

http://www.artharris.com

The Bald Truth has learned law enforcement experts are comparing statements given by Ronald and Misty Cummings, quizzing locals who know them and developing time lines to crack the mystery of Haleigh Cummings, who vanished six weeks ago from under the nose of the 17 year old babysitter who has since married her father.
“We’re still looking at inconsistencies,” a top law enforcement source told me, as the task force of federal, state and local police try to figure who’s telling the truth in their search for what they hope will be a little girl who’s still alive.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

I'm sorry and you're right.
One doesn't propose at Chili's, get married, go to the tattoo parlor or have one's truck customized within days weeks or even months after the loss or possible loss of a child and we should be suspicious of anybody that could do such things.

With all due respect, people grieve differently and I have personally experienced people, including myself, doing what could be seen as strange behavior. Some people do external things to boost their energy to keep going and others react by searching internally for more spiritual strength.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

http://www.artharris.com

The Bald Truth has learned law enforcement experts are comparing statements given by Ronald and Misty Cummings, quizzing locals who know them and developing time lines to crack the mystery of Haleigh Cummings, who vanished six weeks ago from under the nose of the 17 year old babysitter who has since married her father.
“We’re still looking at inconsistencies,” a top law enforcement source told me, as the task force of federal, state and local police try to figure who’s telling the truth in their search for what they hope will be a little girl who’s still alive.

Consider the source. Art appears to be losing his objective side, imo.

 

[raeann]

Consider the source. Art appears to be losing his objective side, imo.

This article is not offering an OPINION, objective or otherwise, it is quoting information received from law enforcement. From what I can see, to keep this thread on topic, there was no reference to questioning CRYSTAL'S story or time line or locals that know HER.

 

[Donjeta]

People grieve differently but I'm pretty sure that if Crystal had gotten engaged and married last month it would be taken as a sign that she's an unnatural mother who doesn't give a d*** that her daughter is missing.

 

[Tichad3]

Originally Posted by raeann View Post
Don't want to quote TiChad's post as it is so long...but ONE thing contradicts all those ASSUMPTIONS about Crystal...

LE knows ALL the facts available in this case, including every single thing that posters here have found out about Crystal PLUS most likely hundreds of more details about this woman's life. What have they (PCSO, FBI, and others) said about their very extensive investigation of this case?

"MISTY IS THE KEY"!!!!!!!!

I agree that LE knows WAY more than we do...hopefully anyways. But as I have said numerous times before:

Key does not mean suspect and/or guilty.

Being the key could mean any number of things. Not just guiltiness on Misty's part. IMO LE needs to release more of the investigation. If they don't want it in the public, they could at least tell us WS-ers.

 

[Tichad3]

(bold mine) Agree w bolded. Precisely. Mom--including how gracious she managed to be toward both Ron and Misty prior to realizing either might be inconsistent, uncooperative and/or before learning more of the facts; or what poor judgment she may have shown in her commitment to keeping her missing child in the news; regardless of what anyone but LE or the courts accept as "proof" of abuse; whether she "suffers" visibly enough for us or how "widely" her eyes are opened (omg lol)--is ultimately the true sideshow here. JMO

arrot:

Bold by me:

The way her eyes are "held" is a text book case of how to tell a person is lying. So I don't see where it is a side show. You may lol all you want, but again, that does not change the facts.

 

[Indigo]

IMOO the abduction of Haleigh would be enough reason for anyone to pay attention. Mudslinging was not necessary for these entities to take notice and or action that was for the public to rally and judge.

Thanks for your reply, texasmommy. But how would Haleigh's disappearance bring public attention to the way DCF is handling their investigation this time around? For that to work, some attention would have to be called to the actual investigation.

Still, I'm not saying I'm happy about it. :frown:

 

[texasmommy39]

With all due respect, people grieve differently and I have personally experienced people, including myself, doing what could be seen as strange behavior. Some people do external things to boost their energy to keep going and others react by searching internally for more spiritual strength.

LOL you are so correct. I had to renew my drivers licence 2 days after, insurance reasons, but needless to say I was standing in line at the DMV and believe me that picture was burned as soon as possible. If ever pulled over that would of given enough reasons to think I was a drugged out freak. My husband and I went to stay at a friends lodge to get away, Im sure some would speculate vacation.

 

[texasmommy39]

I would like to ask out of all the other scenarios how would a live child come into play. Le states they are looking for a live Haleigh. The statement from ART Harrison comes across as WHO is lying. I thought the consensus was only Misty is lying.

 

[texasmommy39]

Thanks for your reply, texasmommy. But how would Haleigh's disappearance bring public attention to the way DCF is handling their investigation this time around? For that to work, some attention would have to be called to the actual investigation.

Still, I'm not saying I'm happy about it. :frown:

Would not LE bring this back to light with DCF if there findings proved to be abuse took place and was the cause for Haleighs abduction.

 

[Donjeta]

Count me out of that consensus, I don't know if I trust anybody in this case to be completely honest about everything. Most of them have put up a red flag in my brain at some point.

 

[texasmommy39]

I'm sorry and you're right.
One doesn't propose at Chili's, get married, go to the tattoo parlor or have one's truck customized within days weeks or even months after the loss or possible loss of a child and we should be suspicious of anybody that could do such things.

I would imagine they have to eat and wanted a good meal with family and friends. I see a family pulling together to comfort one another. Under the circumstances I would imagine without this affirmation this ugly sideshow would destroy anyone's relationship.

 

[texasmommy39]

Losing a child does effect a relationshp if one feels the other could of been at blame.

 

[kiki the parrot]

With all due respect, people grieve differently and I have personally experienced people, including myself, doing what could be seen as strange behavior. Some people do external things to boost their energy to keep going and others react by searching internally for more spiritual strength.

People grieve differently but I'm pretty sure that if Crystal had gotten engaged and married last month it would be taken as a sign that she's an unnatural mother who doesn't give a d*** that her daughter is missing.

Yes people do indeed grieve differently which is why I find it fruitless to judge a person's guilt or innocence on the basis of the number of tears counted, or by rating their "acting abilities." I could point accusingly at how one person balances a tear on their cheek here, or jeer at someone else for inappropriate behavior in the aftermath there--but personally I've stopped short thus far of implicating any of the immediate players directly in Haleigh's disappearance. I am, at the same time, also choosing NOT to simply dismiss out of hand or ignore the claims of abuse which have surfaced as a result of this investigation--and to support therefore whatever efforts may be necessary to ensure the children's safety. The difference is, some on this forum are not only poorly informed re abuse thus unconcerned re this possibility but ARE accusing this grieving mother of being DIRECTLY RESPONSIBLE for her daughter's abduction as they malign her motives and mock her pain. And those who are can bear that burden. JMO

arrot:

 

[texasmommy39]

To have doubt because of an investigation of rumors and hearsay can be a deadly blow to a relationship that is not strong and commited to finding the truth before the blame is placed.

 

[Donjeta]

Losing a child does effect a relationshp if one feels the other could of been at blame.

Yes, and that's exactly why it seems so strange that they up and married so soon. How can RC be sure that Misty is not responsible for Haleigh's disappearance? He was at work.