I agree Prayers. I believe it was Kate and it was a tussle, possibly over the cuddle cat. There has been discussion that cuddle cat was actually a birthday present for Maddie. Maybe Maddie found it early and Kate tried to take it away from her, causing Maddie to have a "melt down" and Kate mis-handled the situation in any number of ways.
Several things that lead me to believe this include: Kate saying very early on that "she hated the media." This was at a time when the the media was very important in getting the word out.
There were also a couple of interviews, when the host asked Kate what she would like to say to Maddie. Each time, Kate hesitated, started to speak, and then finally said "Madeleine knows I love her." Never a direct appeal to the abductor nor a personal comment to Maddie - no we are looking for you, hang in there, we love you, etc. Just "Madeleine knows I love her."
Why did Kate yell "they have taken her'? Her who? Kate has 2 daughters, Maddie and Emalie. Taken who? Why did everyone understand she was talking about Maddie? (I'm not sure everyone understood that, but it appears they did as no one ever seemed to ask "who").
I don't think it was intended or planned, it just happened. I do think Gerry knew and at least one of the Tapas 9 knows. I do not believe that all of the friends know. I find it impossible to believe that not one of the other 7 people would do the right thing and spill the beans. And if it is shown that all 7 knew and not one had the decentcy to speak up, it will definitely have an impact on how I look at people in general.
Salem