mikeysmommom
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I do not believe it at all!No way Jose!Desperate times call for desperate measures and DT is desperate IMO.
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The answer to this lies within each individual. One of my best friends growing up was being sexually abused by her dad from the time she was 4 years old (she told her mother and was severely punished for lying). Long story short, her dad died when she was 14 and she started having sex with guys we went to school with. It was a terrible thing to watch and I begged her to talk to someone to no avail. Her dad was a high ranking officer in the Air Force and she had already learned the hard way that people would not believe her. I will never think any man is "above" sexual abuse. I will say again that I believe ICA is guilty and the abuse is absolutely NO excuse for what she did, but I really believe that she used Caylee for control purposes in the same way that her dad possibly used her.
ETA: My friend got pregnant at 15 and her mom kicked her out for being promiscuous!
TOTALLY an individual deal, and to generalize - as many people are apt to do - is soooooo wrong.
In my case, the answer is not in the least. In my sister's case, the answer was "yes, but only as an aside" - she so desperately wanted someone to love her and take care of her that the sex was her way to force a relationship into being almost from the get-go, but not something she sought whatsoever. In a close relative's instance, she was an almost completely non-sexual person her entire life, and thankfully had a husband who was okay with little physical intimacy.
Those who make statements that victims of sexual abuse become promiscuous is damaging and hurtful, and completely wrong.
George sent a little girl a postcard? I missed that one. I sort of remember some incident about a young girl who ended up hospitalized for some reason, but I can't remember the details.
The, "hello beautiful" and other references to Casey's appearance are troubling to me, too. I can't agree with you more, KC alone is responsible and the sexual abuse, if it happened, should not play a part in the verdict or punishment! I mean, what are the statistics, 1 in 3 or 4 girls are victims of sexual abuse in the US. It's sadly a common thing these days. You can't tell me that 1 in 4 women kill or neglect their children to death or cover up their deaths due to that abuse.
I am not a SA survivor, so may I ask a question to anyone willing to talk openly about this.
Do SA victims and survivors actively seek sexual relations?
She is very cunning and an able mimic. As a sociopath, she doesn't want or need sympathy but she needs people to feel sorry for her and to want to help her. It is pure manipulation and her accusations are an insult to every decent human being who happens to be an abuse survivor. Remember, in her own words she "needs to be seen as a victim"
NO and I hoping this is the straw that breaks the camels back
I would think that maybe ICA didn't want Jessie or Tone to get too close to her family, easier to keep her lies going if there are no bonds. The two men that ICA really got close to and wanted a future with. Nsotice we are not hearing from any of ICA's lifelong female friends that she shared this secret with, not one. ICA trusts men more than women?
IIRC she never told anyone including "cookie" that George molested her for sure, seems to me, she was pointing more towards Lee at that time. Her lies keep changing as we go and IMO this is just another lie. Oh and before anyone says it IMO she shared with "cookie" because ICA is a chameleon.
It's called splitting right?