Bobbisangel
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"Although I have decided never to post and rarely to read, I could not let the libel/slander pass by.
#1 I was not there to support him. I would never do that. He is a sick depraved individual. IMO. I was there because the asst state's atty asked me to come. My impact statement was not required as his lawyer did not present mitigating evidence.
#2 I DID NOT leave the courtroom with him. I walked out while speaking to an FDLE agent. I was assured that that lie will be corrected in the morning on the website and that if it makes it into the print version a retraction would be printed as well.
#3 I agree that his sentence was light and wrong. It does nothing to protect Florida's children. But I was told by others who would rather see him spend a long time in prison that the judge did the best he could under the state sentencing guidelines based on some point system that they use. I had a long phone call with the govenor's office discussing that very issue on my ride back to Fort Myers from Sarasota.
#4 The Sun also misrepresented the amount of his bond. I heard the judge say 10,000 not 1000.
#5 Don't believe everything you read. They get it wrong as often as right.
Ellen"
http://forums.heraldtribune.com/eve/forums/a/tpc/f/3941081465/m/2141003936/r/4761014936#4761014936
Ellen,
Never feel that you have to explain yourself to anyone. You know why you were in the courtroom that day. That is all that matters. I would have been there too. I would have been there because I would have wanted to hear the sentence handed down with my own ears. Dale is your ex-husband and you don't owe him a thing but you did what you felt was best for yourself and you needed to attend that sentencing. That is how I see it anyway and exactly what I would have done. If need be you would have taken the stand and given a statement and it wouldn't have been in favor of Dale or his sentence.
As for you walking with him...so what if you had? You could have been telling him that he should have gotten a longer sentence! You know why you were walking that way and that is all that matters. You don't have to explain your every move to anyone. You know what was going on and that is what is important. I'm glad that the statement in the media will be retracted but you don't owe us an explanation.
It sounds to me that you are doing everything possible to pull your life together and raise your children. You divorced Dale and taken care of that problem. I'm sure that life hasn't been easy for you since all of this has happened and on top of it you have lost your little girl. It would be nice if LE could figure out who did this horrible crime and that person was also locked up. It has to be hard not knowing who is responsible and that they are still out there living their life. I can't help but believe that it is someone who knew CoralRose as he wrapped her in her comforter and that is a sign that the person knew her and cared about her in my opinion anyway.
You take care of yourself and your kids and don't worry about what other people think. It isn't worth worrying about. Take care, Barbara