Wow ... Have not seen a photo of the whole clan. As I've been listening to the wiretaps the past couple of days, this pic brings to mind one specific call that's had me downright irked.
Call #84/102 - 5/26/16 - Charlie+Donna:
Donna is telling Charlie of Rob's many trips to Florida w/family and never contacting her. Flying into Ft. Lauderdale, 17 miles from Harvey+Donna's home, Rob never tries to arrange a visit with them (not even a quick meet up for lunch before driving the family on to Naples). Donna is disgusted. What's wrong with him? What has she ever done to him? If he's mad, why not just talk to her about it? Rob is "off, "strange" and only thinks of himself.
Donna's quote - "thank you very much, because I didn't do much, I didn't do everything possible for you growing up, right? I was a really inattentive parent(ing)".
Of course, 'know-it-all Charlie' has words-of-wisdom for his mom ... (paraphrasing) that's why you need to have more than one kid because you never know ... you've got this one kid and you think everything is great but then he turns out to be a "paranoid schizophrenic" and ... at least she ended up with 2 kids and 2 grandkids so everything is ok!!
Ya'll ... Donna cannot be this clueless and honestly not know, at least one reason, why her eldest son has cast her aside. Harvey+Donna relentlessly threatened to disown Rob if he married Haritha. Out of respect for his parents (and continuous browbeating), he eventually throws in the towel. Fully prepared to abandon their son, Donna questions how their son could abandon them? Isn't that the pot calling the kettle black?
Ugh Donna ... your deflection is showing!!
FWIW Charlie's describing Rob as a paranoid schizo ... well paranoid, he might have been. Knowing the level of hatred and viciousness and discovering they're capable of murder, I wouldn't blame him for being a little paranoid ... of his own family!
Apologies for my ramblings ... IMO and all that other stuff