Greywing
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londonPI said:okay, i'm going to be the bad guy(girl) here... i watched NG last night and could not believe that father on the day his children were found dead called in and talked her leg off on the show....there was no tears whatsoever...his voice was calm, sad, but said the kids were in a better place. i find that kind of behavior BIZARRE...would you all go on tv the night your kids are found dead just to thank everyone and say they were better off?
the mother had no tears - i know, we all grieve differently, but really, NO TEARS? I am suspicious and HOPE i am wrong. there, i said it!
I watched NG last night as well and I felt the father was in shock. It was almost as though he couldn't quit talking ... trying to convince himself they were actually dead, and were in a better place, etc. I just felt I could hear it in his voice ... disbelief, sorrow, resignation AND anger (when he said he was trying to figure out how the front yard gate could have been closed if the children left on their own).
Anyway, it just goes to show that each of us hear and see and feel things individually. And I would guess each of us would cope differently.
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