Not me.
Of course I love my daughter, but she is an adult.
She's given me three grandchildren. If God forbid she murdered any, and I knew that for a fact, I would help in her prosecution. I truly would. The children are helpless. I would never ever cover for her, hang out with her, go for drinks, nothing. I would still have love for her for the child she used to be, but if she killed one of her children, that would separate her from me forever. There's no "why" that she could tell me that would justify her actions.
No last hurrahs with her. What is there to hurrah about when your child/grandchild is decomposing among the town's garbage?
Leilani's children were hostages to that environment. The grandmother is not the suspect but she did in fact leave those babies in a deadly environment. I don't care if she had to work. The babysitter was right there, ready willing and able. Or you call your boss to ask for leave, or you call child services and see if someone could shield those children temporarily until you return from being away for work. Or your husband who also had custody should have protected those kids.
This is abomination upon abomination. A merry little crew kicking back on vacation. Not a care in the world for now.
Jmo