i have typed and erased this a million times bc i dont want it to read as insensitive but did anyone else pause when they read the wedding plans were canceled? i am choosing the word pause carefully bc i wasnt shocked or alarmed but i can see both sides to continuing with the wedding and cancelling.
obviously, this is a traumatic experience and if cancelling feels like the right thing to do, i totally respect and understand the families' decision.
at the same time, she is not a blood relative in this wedding or married into the family. when you consider the degrees of separation (grooms & fiance family) i could also sympathize and respect the decision to continue with the wedding. not in a shallow/lets party at a destination wedding but some people have relatives they rarely see, worry about aging grandparents not making it to future weddings, etc: there are non-shallow and emotional aspects to weddings. if handled delicately and with respect to mollie's family and the struggles her bf is going through currently, i wouldnt find it rude to proceed if both the bride and groom agreed. or there could also be a middle ground such as proceed with the wedding but spend less days in dr, relieve the brother of any wedding duties he was assigned etc.
being updated that they were proceeding w the wedding would bring me pause also - i guess i just dont think its a black and white decision. especially since we dont know things like is mollie super close with the fiance/is the bf's brother more of a friend than just your brothers bf (seems possible if they were living together, even for a short while)/was it only 8 people traveling for the wedding thus much easier to cancel/a million other factors we dont know so i definitely want to emphasize im not judging either way, just processing.
sooo with that in mind it made me wonder if LE does have more info than they are letting on to the public and have informed those close to mollie & invited to the wedding that there will likely be significant updates & activity in the near future. obviously LE cant guarantee close dates on cases but they could have let the wedding attendees know they have a POI they are zooming in on/solid tips and itll likely be an active week and stressful to be away from home? is that something LE would do or is that unprofessional?
i could totally be wrong and they very well could have cancelled the wedding from pure shock/depression/sadness - mollie is clearly loved by many and prioritizing bringing her home is a good enough reason on its own, but it just made me wonder.
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