Oh, yes that's what I meant-- not that they met for the first time. It sounds so much more romantic if told that way-- two recent widows who knew each other casually before, happen to meet on a gorgeous island while grieving their late spouses, they console each other over their losses and one thing leads to another and they decide to marry. It's like a bad romance novel but Chad is a writer so maybe he came up with that cover story? Maybe they thought that version would sound more acceptable than the truth? Because, regardless of where the actual wedding happened, I don't buy for a second that this marriage was a spontaneous decision-- I think they were having an affair long before Tammy died-- if not physically, at least an emotional affair was going on IMHO. How else do we explain Lori's suddenly moving to ID around August? She may have been moving to avoid fall out from Charles' death but why choose ID? I believe she went there with plans to see Chad. MOO.