This crossed my mind also .. under normal circumstances, it would be the husband, huh? I wonder WHO is making the arrangments etc.
I also thought I saw at the link that she was being cremated...
*I'll correct myself .. I just noticed that the place is a buriel and cremation place...* I don't see anything about her being cremated ...
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Hubby is a funeral director in Illinois so I can answer some of these questions. Legally, her husband is next of kin and is the only person who can give authorization to the funeral home regarding arrangements (burial, cremation, etc.) that's not to say a hat Todd didn't give her mom and stepbrother his authorization to make arrangements. Since they were not legally separated their living arrangements have no bearing on who can make decisions.
Regarding date of death - on her death certificate the date that the body was discovered, Friday, November 9, will be her legal date of death in the eyes of the state. What the funeral home lists is what the family has chosen to have posted.
Chances are, because of the state of her body when it was discovered, cremation will be chosen but its not a certainty.
The one thing that struck me as off was the wording regarding the release of the full obituary. Since this is just the funeral home website it would be customary to post the full obituary when arrangements are finalized. I'm wondering if the family is waiting until tomorrow to wait and see if someone is arrested in her death. I would see them not wanting to include Todd if he is charged in her death.