The sketch/pic to me doesn't necessarily look like every guy. There's lots of guys 40+ who are much bigger, taller, shorter, thinner, with different hair color. Driving around my smallish town the last couple days I decided to analyze guys when out and about. Thx to WS I i'm getting really weeeeeird. LOL (I'm semi-retired btw). One was hippish, tie dye outfit, pony tail, gray haired, another miliitarish looking guy out running, another guy was huge and twice the size of wife, some thin druggy looking guys, as well. OH has a big diversity. But in the winter, maybe they will all look alike!
My son or son in laws count as male. Younger, taller, thinner. All this to say imo he doesnt kook like every other guy.
Do you realize though that you didn't note one facial feature? And I'm not pointing this out to poke, but I think you inadvertently bring up an interesting aspect of human observation---If we are casually observing someone, do we notice their facial features more--or how they are dressed?
For me, I think I notice attire over face. And it does, again, make me wonder about the accuracy of some composites.