What characteristics or behaviors make him a supposed sociopath? I don't view him as being cunning, charming, grandiose. Rather, I view him as rather awkward and insecure. Take for example the fact that his FB profile pic was not him but two tall, good-looking guys who looked mature, almost "men" instead of boys. Each had a good-looking, smiling gal on his arm. Then there is the moment he spoke from inside his vehicle to the tv reporter and in a soft-spoken voice commented to the effect that he talks to the Spierer's on a regular basis, which was so very wierd.
I'd like to add that I still believe he is capable of lying, and I believe it's possible that he may have dug himself in a hole unwittingly by saying she was there.
It's not really inconsistent with what you have described. Someone can be insecure, from a well off family and yet have these tendencies.
Not sure where you got your list, I think you mean Conning (As in Con) instead of Cunning?
This list is from DSM -IV, it's my understanding that someone only need to fit a few of these to be considered sociopathic, and certainly much of this would be contrasted against socio-economic status and things like being shy and insecure. The DSM gets revised every 10 years or so and so it's not so black and white. Yet from posts being made about JR, its starting to look like fits a few of these. Also, breaking into 10th and N. College, his police and traffic record, you have to take these things into account too. Some people think the rules don't apply to them because of their status.
Manipulative and Conning
They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims.
Grandiose Sense of Self
Feels entitled to certain things as "their right."
Pathological Lying
Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and even able to pass lie detector tests.
Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt
A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way.
Shallow Emotions
When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises.
Incapacity for Love
Need for Stimulation
Living on the edge. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments are normal. Promiscuity and gambling are common.
Callousness/Lack of Empathy
Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others' feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them.
Poor Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature
Rage and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others.
Early Behavior Problems/Juvenile Delinquency
Usually has a history of behavioral and academic difficulties, yet "gets by" by conning others. Problems in making and keeping friends; aberrant behaviors such as cruelty to people or animals, stealing, etc.
Irresponsibility/Unreliability
Not concerned about wrecking others' lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames others, even for acts they obviously committed.
Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity
Promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts.
Lack of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle
Tends to move around a lot or makes all encompassing promises for the future, poor work ethic but exploits others effectively.
Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility
Changes their image as needed to avoid prosecution. Changes life story readily.