Last night I woke up in the middle of the night and I couldn’t go back to sleep. I kept thinking about all the dribble JA has been saying and insinuating and taken out of context about Travis. I feel so sad for his family and so sad and sorry that Travis ever met this evil person who just had to have him and when she couldn’t she slaughtered him.
As a side note, I have to wonder if his religion and it’s medaling in their lives didn’t set him and others up by messing with their heads so that they would never have the strength to make decisions for themselves that were right for the individual rather than the religion. I have to almost call it a cult when I hear that the perverted elders grill the, was it 12 year old males, about whether or not they had been masturbating. Ack, I find that disgusting and inappropriate. I wonder what they are saying or doing to the young females to make sure they are virgins and get them married off before they really know who they are and whether this is right for them!
If Travis was a virgin before he met JA, then I’m thinking his experiences were quite limited to what he saw in the media, movies, magazines, heard from other guys. Being 30 and a virgin must have been very hard for him especially after he meet JA who laid out a smorgasbord of hos to tempt him and throw him off track. From what his friends have said, JA was basically acting out as a little sex pot constantly and she did not dress like a meek school girl as she has in court. I saw no indication that she faked the whole sex tape, but I believe she was into everything he was talking to her about. Now that she needs a defense, she says she just went along with it because she couldn’t say no to him, that I don’t buy. I’m sure the jurors were not relating to her at all when she said she was faking the phone orgasm, because she couldn’t have pleasured herself with one hand only, really Jodi? Without trying to be gross, that just takes me back to the images of her grand canyon and the word fisting, blaac, thanks JA. I suspect the jurors didn’t even know why she said that to them, nor did they want anything to do with the image she was creating.
If what she offered him was all of her hos and it seems like anything was possible with JA, why in the world would Travis think anything other than this is what she liked. I don’t think he was abby normal, he just got mixed up with a horn dog who liked acting anything and everything sex out in life and in pictures. The things he said to her, I would not have put up with in a man, but she went along with all of it and I tend to think she was the instigator and introduced him to things in real life he had previously only heard about or seen in some demeaning movie. But if he never had a normal sexual relationship with a woman, then how was he supposed to act towards her when this is what he obviously thought she liked. From the way the other women who knew him said he treated them, makes me think that he was not acting like this to all women, just JA.
I’m just saying it is not fair or right for JA and her defense team to turn him into this deviant for the world to see and to confuse the jurors into thinking he was an abusive man because now she needs a good excuse for why she butchered him. I am especially disgusted with the judge, who should have set some limits. After all there really is no one to corroborate her stories. The stupid fantasies, like tying her to a tree. I tend to think she encouraged these fantasies, they may have even been her fantasies, regardless, they were having a mutual sexual relationship and if she went along with all of it, why would he not think it was okay to act and talk to her like he did in the tape. For as tired or bored as he sounded on the tape, to me, it sounded like he was trying to say what he though she wanted him to say. Didn’t she call him after all?
I don’t know if this has already been discussed, as I am not able to read every post. I just don’t think Travis knew any better. JA was a participant and could have said no and gotten out a long time before she felt the need to murder him. After hearing the tape and the continuing dribble coming out of her mouth about how she didn’t like it but put up with it, because she loved him! If she didn’t like what they were doing, she didn’t love him, he was just a means to an end for her. He was going somewhere in life and she wasn’t, he had friends and she didn’t much. JA was looking for a free ride and unfortunately she found a very immature and vulnerable young man who couldn’t say no to her 3 wonders. RIP Travis.