Laceybug
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I feel sorry for the young women of today. I always liked a long, slow build up to sex so that when it finally happened, it was something that was "yearned for". Plus you knew the person and had connected emotionally before the physical.
I always felt that it was best to wait for emotional bonding before having sex - that way you know the man desired you for YOU and not just for "sex".
respect is the bond of the highest order. for me the "best" sex always came out of mututal respect. it takes time to feel respect for a person and trust takes time too. the healthiest relationships have respect and trust and good, clear communication IMO.
nothing is better than great sex but for me it's great only if
it's an expression of 'relatedness'. sex that sets off a torrent of emotion - not because it's sex, but because you have emotional "relatedness".
In regards to young people today (in general) Every day there is something in the news about someone "killing" a lover or partner. It has become the norm of today's society. I live in a very small community and just within the last year there have been a couple of incidents where young women were killed by a husband/boyfriend. It scares me to death with my only daughter dating. It's like it's no big thing for people to kill on another anymore. Very scary!