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Thank you, but what I experienced isn’t half as awful as losing a child to murderAHTH- I am sorry you had to endure this heartache
Thank you, but what I experienced isn’t half as awful as losing a child to murderAHTH- I am sorry you had to endure this heartache
If you want what is best for your child when someone calls you and says they have two black eyes, bruises all over their body - you say yes please take him to ER and call me as soon as you know something - you don't send the woman back to pick him up that dropped him off that way so that family will not take him to ER IMO.
If you want what is best for your child when someone calls you and says they have two black eyes, bruises all over their body - you say yes please take him to ER and call me as soon as you know something - you don't send the woman back to pick him up that dropped him off that way so that family will not take him to ER IMO.
Rest in peace, Lucas.
Lucas Hernandez's Obituary on Wichita Eagle
December 03, 2012-February, 2018. Beloved son, brother, grandchild and nephew, tragically left this world in February, 2018. Lucas was a child full of love, hope and joy. He brightened every life he touched and made the world a better place.
The thing is, we weren't there. We don't know what was said, to who it was said, or what led to actions. We don't know if there had been constant 'drama' or 'wolf' comments over and over, so when something really was happening, the response could have been "here we go again!". If someone isn't given the whole story, and only hear one person's viewpoint, then it's hard to make a decision. And truthfully, we just don't know what the history there was, what the backstory was, what was said, whether a text, phone call, phone message, FB message, etc.
Just like we all can read the same things in text on this board, and come to different conclusions and it doesn't make one person right and another wrong. It only means we came to a different conclusion with the same facts, due to our viewpoint. Our past, experiences, thinking process, personalities, etc, affect how we interpret.
Agreed
That is the phrase i was looking for earlier. "Wait til they see" ,that is exactly what i think went through her mind before she died.In some ways, to me, EG seemed almost child-like in a lot of what she did. Throwing tantrums if she didn't get her way, lying (with sometimes very unbelievable lies), responding to frustration with violence for lack of other coping skills (my thought, nothing anyone said), and so many other things she's been said to have done. If she committed suicide (which I believe she did), I feel like it was more to make JH feel bad for doubting her than out of guilt, fear of jail or any of the other reasons I've read here. I can remember when I was young hearing kids talking about dying/committing suicide and saying things like, "Just wait until they find me dead, then they'll be sorry. I can't wait to see the looks on their faces." I can hear her thinking, "Just wait until he finds me dead. He'll wish he'd stuck up for me more and believed me when I said I didn't kill Lucas. This is really going to make him feel sorry" I wonder at times if her immature mind didn't stop to think that death would be final, she'd be unlikely to see the look on his face, and she'll probably never know if he felt bad or not. MOO
So, in the last thread someone said they were confused and asked if people here thought that someone else killed Emily. That was because I asked someone who they thought killed Emily. Just to state... I of course think Emily killed herself... just setting the record straight.
That is the phrase i was looking for earlier. "Wait til they see" ,that is exactly what i think went through her mind before she died.
So, in the last thread someone said they were confused and asked if people here thought that someone else killed Emily. That was because I asked someone who they thought killed Emily. Just to state... I of course think Emily killed herself... just setting the record straight.
I’m not from US so just thinking out loud ideas here.So, group,do you think we will get follow up to this case once results come in?? So much has been held close to the vest,but now that there is no case to try,will they be forth coming???I just hope that LE and the DA realize that after the huge Memorial Service for Lucas that there is is still a whole bunch of people that want "Justice for Lucas" and if facts are swept under the rug or kept out of the public eye,it will reflect directly on them.
The DA has stated the information will be released to the public once the results from the ME has come in and the investigation is closed. I can only assume that what we will be given is what would have been presented as evidence to proceed to trial. I don’t know that we will ever have a complete picture now that EG has made the choice she made. Actually I don’t know that we would have even if she had been tried. So much darkness, so much hidden and she seemed determined to keep it that way.So, group,do you think we will get follow up to this case once results come in?? So much has been held close to the vest,but now that there is no case to try,will they be forth coming???I just hope that LE and the DA realize that after the huge Memorial Service for Lucas that there is is still a whole bunch of people that want "Justice for Lucas" and if facts are swept under the rug or kept out of the public eye,it will reflect directly on them.
The DA, in his statement following the death of EG, was adamant that 1. The investigation into Lucas' death will continue and 2. He will release the findings to the public. He was clear that he felt it was important for the public to know what happened. I believe him.So, group,do you think we will get follow up to this case once results come in?? So much has been held close to the vest,but now that there is no case to try,will they be forth coming???I just hope that LE and the DA realize that after the huge Memorial Service for Lucas that there is is still a whole bunch of people that want "Justice for Lucas" and if facts are swept under the rug or kept out of the public eye,it will reflect directly on them.
If the family doesn't want all the details out there,that is fine with me. I just do not like how "open" the case still is for the Emily groupies. Even though they will always deny her part in it,it would be nice to have the law come out with a charge against her. I guess I am naive to want that for Lucas.I’m not from US so just thinking out loud ideas here.
But what is ’Justice for Lucas” that will satisfy people that are not family. I mean at the end of the day the person who committed this crime is most likely is dead. The people who get on groups and news articles screaming for Justice also attack everyone from all sides.
Legally can the DA say much more than the evidence points to EG being the killer of both Lucas and herself. Without a trial are they able to just lay out all the evidence, if yes then you could only think DNA etc and cause of death. But would they be able to show circumstantial without the person being able to legally defend against that ?
I think once all the tox is back we may just hear what I stated above
The evidence points to her killing Lucas. He passed this way. EG killed herself.
Of course as sleuths we want all the details but I am starting to think that may not occur.
As long as the family get answers.
So, group,do you think we will get follow up to this case once results come in?? So much has been held close to the vest,but now that there is no case to try,will they be forth coming???I just hope that LE and the DA realize that after the huge Memorial Service for Lucas that there is is still a whole bunch of people that want "Justice for Lucas" and if facts are swept under the rug or kept out of the public eye,it will reflect directly on them.
My heart just breaks so much for this poor family I remember writing obituary for my son, it was the hardest thing I ever wrote because my son passed in pregnancy and I had no cute stories to share.. I think his obituary (Lucas') is beautiful and I want to yet again offer my deepest condolences to his entire family ( @FindLucasAllen ) who will forever miss him and wonder who he would have been, who will never get Kindergarden graduation photos, go to a school play, shout for him in a sporting event, celebrate his 6th birthday, see him fall in love, and back out of love. To see him go to prom, and graduation, and marriage, and have his grandchildren.. This horrid woman stole so much from this family that I don't think she was even a little capable of understanding just how much she was robbing them... I've been so blessed to fall in love with this little boy I had never met, he has changed my life, he has made me think twice about the children I see in the grocery store with bruises, he has made me appreciate my jerk of a teenage daughter because at least she is HERE to be a jerk.
Lucas, you are a superhero, but not like the ones you loved, no sir - you have exceeded all the known super heros out there, because you are REAL! Please play with my son in heaven, sweet Lucas! Make mudpies with him and fall asleep with the lullabyes of angels. And look down on your momma and her family, and send them rainbows to show you are still here!
Okay, enough of that, Im a crying mess! Thank you to WS for existing to bring us awareness of so many things, and to the mods for upholding TOS that set us apart from other sites, and most of all, for the community of friends I have developed through this case and who share the common bond of those who want to make a difference in the world! Lucas would be proud of us all!
Agree. Knew if one case where trigger was pulled with big toe. She was evil. And now she’s gone.
Her family must have dealt with arrangements privately. She hurt them as well.