I take TP's 'statements' with a grain of salt...a big one. He's a kid...and wants to be helpful. Lord knows from personal experience, it's hard getting accurate information from pre-teens and teenagers...it's even harder to know if what's coming from a kid's mouth is 'truth' or 'this is what they want to hear'.Assuming the sources are accurate, it STILL bugs me that, imo, this version seems inconsistent with the teacher supposedly telling the parent-helper that Kyron was probably in the bathroom or at the water fountain when the kids re-grouped for class after touring the fair. If the teacher thought he had a dr. appt., she would have just said *don't worry he's at a dr's appt.* The only explanation I can think of consistent with this version of the story is that the teacher momentarily forgot about the appt. and remembered a very short time later (like seconds or minutes) and marked him absent at 10:00.
Also, that the parent-helper noticed Kyron missing at the time of re-grouping, implies that Kyron WAS in the group at the start of the tour. If that's true, he would have had to just leave the group in the middle of the tour to go to the *appt.* without a word to the helper or her noticing. Seems highly unlikely to me.
Or, I can just discount TP's version entirely and all is right in my world. Anyone have any thoughts on this?
If the teacher were so certain about the doc appointment that she marked Kyron absent without question, then IMO, the 'he's in the bathroom' convo between teacher and helper never happened. Maybe the kids questioned where Kyron was and speculated the bathroom stuff and TP worked it out in his head that the teacher's said such. But I'd be very surprised it the teacher 'forgot' about the appointment. I'm just basing this on my experience. IME...kids, especially elementary aged ones, often make up scenarios when they're trying to be helpful. Teachers are usually...IME...careful about knowing when a mother/father says a child will be out and aren't casual about absences.