Well, that's what I mean. I think we need to see the letter so we can know exactly what Chris is talking about. What is his definition of emotionally abusive? I don't think an inability to commit to a woman or even leading a woman on constitutes being emotionally abusive. And, again, did he use the words emotionally abusive himself, or were these words extracted based on ALV's understanding of abuse? (According to her, not calling someone for three days is emotional abuse...) So did she just read what Chris wrote and decide, "aha, that's emotional abuse right there"? I also hear there's more to the email chain. I think we need to hear the context and where the conversation ends up. We know in the end Chris and Sky end up not liking Jodi at all. If the Hughes' are called to testify, all this will be cleared up.