(Roy's mother)The fact that she would say to him, Your family will get over you. How is that even? - I will never get over him, she said.
I definitely do think there should be a law against saying to a suicidal person, who confides in you they are thinking of changing their mind, and they might want to live after all;
"OH no you don't! You know you want to die, jump up right now and go kill yourself right this minute!
Suicide hotlines have saved the lives of depressed people who are wavering, with "just words". Words could also kill in those same situations.
Words are profoundly powerful when used with intent to harm.
(This is one reason why so many find the PC movement so ridiculous. It does not differentiate between intentional/inadvertent).
Emotional abuse kills the spirit.
She killed him with her words. And she also ruined her own life, and was found guilty... when those very same words, her own words, were used against her.
Poetic Justice.
Emotional abuse kills the spirit.
* I've been lurking in the shadows but had to come out to repeat your statement, Safeguard. That line sums up exactly what MC did to Conrad. She killed his spirit. He kept fighting his way back to clarity and each time, she stomped him back down into the dark pit of depression.
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I totally agree with you and safeguards post!
Just think what she could have done to help Conrad if she had talked positive to him and encouraged him to live. Told him how wonderful he was, what a good future he had, the things he had going for him that were worth living for, etc.
No she belittled Conrad and dragged him down the rabbit hole for her gratification.
jmo!
Michelle Carter: Because you didn't even do anything! You lied about this whole thing! You said you were gonna go to the woods and do it and you said things that made me feel like maybe you were actually serious, and I poured my heart out to you thinking this was gonna be the last time I talked to you. And then you tell me you took sleeping pills? Whixh [sic] first of all I know that's a lie because you already said you wouldn't get enough and idk how you would of [sic] got them. I'm just so confused. I thought you really wanted to die but apparently you don't, I feel played and just stupid
BBMA week before Conrad died, she tortures him emotionally, over a failed attempt and he apologies for still being ALIVE! No concern AT ALL from MC, just accusations... How dare he not be dead!
"Conrad Roy: hey sorry I just took sleeping pills and fell asleep
Michelle Carter: So it didn't work
Michelle Carter: That's such a lie
Michelle Carter: You said you wanted this bad. I knew you weren't gonna try hard
Michelle Carter: I feel like such an idiot
Conrad Roy: Why
Michelle Carter: Because you didn't even do anything! You lied about this whole thing! You said you were gonna go to the woods and do it and you said things that made me feel like maybe you were actually serious, and I poured my heart out to you thinking this was gonna be the last time I talked to you. And then you tell me you took sleeping pills? Whixh [sic] first of all I know that's a lie because you already said you wouldn't get enough and idk how you would of [sic] got them. I'm just so confused. I thought you really wanted to die but apparently you don't, I feel played and just stupid
Conrad Roy: Don't I found out a new plan. and I'm gonna fo [sic] it tonight
Michelle Carter: I don't believe you
Michelle Carter: You're gonna have to prove me wrong because I just don't think you really want this. You just keeps [sic] pushing it off to another night and say you'll do it but you never do
Conrad Roy: okay
Michelle Carter: Okay what?
Conrad Roy: I'll prove you wrong
Michelle Carter: What are you planning on doing?
Michelle Carter: Poision [sic] would work
Conrad Roy: Carbon monoxide or helium gas. I want to deprive myself of oxygen
Conrad Roy: don't feel like an idiot it's gonna happen
Michelle Carter: Tonight?
Conrad Roy: Eventually
Michelle Carter: Cute J haha I love you
Michelle Carter: SEE THATS WHAT I MEAN. YOU KEEP PUSHING IT OFF! You just said you were gonna do it tonight and now you're saying eventually ."
Poor Michelle. She desperately wants him dead and he just keeps putting it off.
He just can't do anything right! Not even a simple little thing like killing himself...
Dripping with "malice" was this slime creature!
I don't think they will appeal. This is a comment I read elswhere, that explains the problem with appealing this verdict:
"The appeal will be very hard to win because first of all it was held in front of a judge so it takes appeals involving the jury in any way, out of the game. Also the SJC has already ruled the case could go forward and probable cause existed. What's left witness testimony or the cell phone records. It'll be rough."
There's also this:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bo...after-conviction-in-texting-suicide-trial/amp
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In its ruling last year, the Supreme Judicial Court said the grand jury that indicted Carter heard evidence suggesting that Carter had engaged in a “systematic campaign of coercion” targeting Roy’s insecurities and that her instruction for him to “get back in” his truck was a “direct, causal link” to his death. The court also found that Carter was “virtually present” at the time of Roy’s suicide."
I'm 99% sure they will appeal, unless she gets probation or something. Even if she does get probation, they might still appeal anyway. She has the money to appeal, and nothing to lose.
Well if she gets a light sentence, she risks a harsher one if she wins an appeal, and is found guilty again. Her defence said they would wait until sentencing to decide if they would appeal, and I'm guessing if she gets a token punishment, they won't risk it.
If she gets the max allowed, they won't have anything to lose, but if she doesn't it's quite the gamble. She's not a very sympathetic defendent, and she has practically no credible defence.
http://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/appealing-conviction.html
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"An appeal is a request to a higher (appellate) court to review and change the decision of a lower court. The defendant may challenge the conviction itself or the sentence (without attacking the underlying conviction). A successful appeal usually restores a case to the initial stages, but can sometimes end the case altogether (such as when the appellate court finds that theres insufficient evidence to retry the defendant).
Since the SJC already found "sufficient" evidence in allowing the case to proceed, I would think they would have nothing to base an overturn on.
Not sure if this can work for an appeal, but when the defense brought it to the Supreme Court in MA to have it dismissed (which was denied), in their ruling they mentioned that the defense had claimed that the defendant was not able to fully grasp the situation she had put Conrad in (or herself as far as being responsible), so based on her immaturity at age 17, as the defense claimed (to have it dismissed), and others in that age group (17ish year-olds), the case should be dismissed. (Can you tell I am typing this from memory? lol). Anyway, that is what I got from what I read.
Okay, here's what I am wondering. The Court said (on the above as said by the defense), that the defense failed to file a motion to put on record any such claim to be discussed or reviewed. So the Court just said it was not relevant to their request to dismiss because the defense did not provide any backing information on this,
CAN the defense NOW provide some kind of historical case proof that indicates 17ish year-olds are just too plain ignorant and naive to understand and grasp a scenario such as what happened in this case and then use that for the appeal?
And/or can the defense say they appeal because they were not aware the court needed examples for them to discuss/review?