I have a comment re: the topic at hand being discussed by Rocky, DeDee and Kickoff. Some good stuff!
First, I feel compelled to comment on writermom's post last wk, so that we don't lose a potentially helpful contributor and because it's the right thing to do for her sake, IMO. That post had relevance and wasn't unfair, IMO. I think it might have come off as unfair to some *only* because of the post that followed that went off on a tangent. Vanessa had Crohn's, as is well known. We don’t know if she was taking a prescription to help control it. I'm a believer in as little medication as necessary -- but sometimes medications are necessary. (I’d bet Vanessa felt the same way.)
That post relates to the discussion of the possibility of Vanessa running into someone during a "store visit" a while back. It's somewhat nuanced, so I'm not rehashing it. I don't tend to believe the scenario writermom suggested happened for a few reasons. However, there was relevance, IMO. It’s obvious she was following along, as she mentioned the theory proposed about the perp fleeing south. We could use all the people who know how to interact in groups and are at least pretty up-to-speed on things.
However, I agree with the first part of Mainely’s initial response. EVEY -- talk of what RXs you or anyone is taking does not belong here. For one, it is a private matter. Secondly, Mainely is right -- there are unbalanced people out there, some of whom would rob and kill for the controlled medications you take. Please, no need to comment. I don’t want to get this thread more off track.
Mainely – I don’t want to put words in your mouth, but I think you *might* have associated writermom’s comment with the one that followed it or... Whatever, I appreciated the thought behind the post. Your sensitivity and intelligence come through clearly. You and people like you make being on this site more palatable to me (and surely others). Being on a crime site (or any open anonymous site) is not my thing. I joined after stumbling across this site while looking for an update about this crime because I found it especially tragic, not to mention infuriating.
Thanks.
I agree that her post is important since she has new ideas and don't want to see her scared off I only replied with what I did to say I don't believe she would be killed for her meds. I believe the worst she would deal with depending on her meds would be annoying people asking for some and don't see that town as having a bad drug problem. And don't think an addict would kill for any meds when they could go buy hard drugs rather than murder. And she wouldn't have her meds on her run and if she was caught on footage at a pharmacy I feel they'd mention it, but it is good to see that people are coming up with new ideas since most of the other ones we've gone over. And again my reply was only because meds got brought up and because I'm willing to look in any directions that will get the case solved and felt like it got assumed she meant Vanessa was on drugs or something like that. Now if she was walking around town with her bag with her meds and a desperate perp was near and willing to kill for pills I would find that plausible but not if she was actually jogging and it honestly doesn't seem like a drug related attack but more of an obsession based one. I'm glad she came with new ideas and hope she stays and wasn't scared off because I think we need to venture outside what we've all already thought of and maybe accidentally end up figuring out something great that we all haven't yet thought of. One thought is do we think LE would release the video or tell us if she was caught on camera anywhere or would they keep it secret?