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In the pictures, he appears to be a big, strong guy. If anyone harmed him and dumped his body, there might be more than 1 suspect.
I text girlfriends or have them text me...Home vs a call. Which if ya think about it anyone could send a text vs a call where you hear and know their voice.I seldom send text messages; I'm much more likely to make a phone call, regardless of the circumstances. On the other hand, I don't think I've ever called a friend to say that I got home.
I understand and there are times when I have to think is that the norm for most/what would I do?I'd call too, I might even say I was going in the house, being silly or tipsy or just chatty.
So many times in WS threads we put our subjective spin on everything. We think that no one would do that (whatever THAT is) because WE would not do that. Or we would not do it THAT WAY. Sometimes it helps me to step back and say, "it's not right or wrong, it's just different" and remember that there are so many ways to do so many things. Rather than fitting the limited details into what I know and expect, I have to let the information tell the story rather than making up the story and fitting in the pieces.
I'm just feeling helpless and rambling. Where are you, Chef Doug?
I'm thinking he said I told him to call either earlier(before the call) or after a call was made and that was the reason given.And I would never call anyone at 3:30 am unless it was an emergency. Yes, that is my subjective spin, I filter everything through my own rationale, experience, common sense, and opinion ... but most of all, intuition and gut instinct.
I text girlfriends or have them text me...Home vs a call. Which if ya think about it anyone could send a text vs a call where you hear and know their voice.
Maybe, I have been doing it wrong?
Mom is smart! ; )I do too. Just to say "I'm home". My mom always makes me call.
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Mom is smart! ; )
Call me skeptical, pessimistic, jaded ... but I don't like the "phone call to a friend he was just hanging out with, at 3:00am to say he's okay and going inside now." Side-eye. To my ears it has ALIBI written all over it. Easy enough to verify this conversation via phone records, but it sounds like someone really wants LE to believe he made it home that night, safe and sound. Someone close to him is involved. Carry on.
Yeah this is tricky. Friends, family, circumstances, the calling thing, or texting thing is different for all. When the we go out depending on how late, how much we may have been partying, bad weather, concern about neighborhood going to or coming from. It's hard to say what might seem normal or out of place. When I go out it seems the later we break up or the farther from home we are we insist on getting a text or call to say we arrived. If I am contacting family (older folks) I call, my friends mostly likely I text.And I would never call anyone at 3:30 am unless it was an emergency. Yes, that is my subjective spin, I filter everything through my own rationale, experience, common sense, and opinion ... but most of all, intuition and gut instinct.
You have a good point!Real talk....this was a grown, presumably alpha type male. Those types don't call their friends to let them know they are home.
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There is NOTHING abnormal or 'sketchy' about him calling the person he had been with earlier to let them know he got home safe. 41 years old and my friends and I STILL do this. Could just be a southern thing but I highly doubt it.
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Douglas | |
Middle name | Jeffery |
Last name | Calhoun |
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Date last seen | June 03, 2017 00:00 |
Date entered | 06/26/2017 |
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Age last seen | 39 to years old |
Age now | 39 years old |
Race | Black/African American |
Ethnicity | |
Sex | Male |
Height (inches) | 73.0 |
Weight (pounds) | 230.0 |