I think studies have shown that nothing comforts a child taken out of their home better than sleeping in their own bed.
JMO
And I wouldn't go back either. All the wonderful memories in that house have been destroyed. You can never get them back. MOO
Ok I can only take this from my perspective but I was thinking about why I'd never go back to my house...this is all I can conclude about myself- I'd have to be scared to death of someone!
Otherwise, I'd go back. If for no other reason than to be where my daughter and I had bonded and played.
I guess I'm very different but as I said above the ONLY reason I would not go back was if I was scared for my life or my children's lives.
Now what would cause me to feel that way? Hmmmm(1) being threatened by someone so I'd want to stay with many people around me. That's all I can think of. Anyone else...look at it from your perspective.
The truth is none of you know what you would do until you are in that position. No matter what you think now, you can not imagine the pain of having a child ripped from your life. Just because someone would want to leave the home where they last saw their child means nothing. Plenty of people kill their children and live in the same house without batting an eye. So that for me means nothing.
The problem is the Susan Smiths and Casey Anthony's of this world have poisoned us to believe first the parents were involved.
It is a shame. A big shame.
Exactly. Not that there's a direct quote, but if this is what either of them said, I find it odd that she would not want to bring her baby home and maybe get a more vocal dog and a burglar alarm.If that were the last place I saw my child, I would stay there, hoping and praying that someone would bring her back there.
A theory based on what? Has there been a single smidgen of indication that this house is in foreclosure? Solid evidence of foreclosure is easy enough to come by, so to come forth and present a theory based on a hypothesized, unsubstantiated "foreclosure" is going pretty far afield, and yes, adding more kindling to the rumor bonfire.
Ok I can only take this from my perspective but I was thinking about why I'd never go back to my house...this is all I can conclude about myself- I'd have to be scared to death of someone!
Otherwise, I'd go back. If for no other reason than to be where my daughter and I had bonded and played.
I guess I'm very different but as I said above the ONLY reason I would not go back was if I was scared for my life or my children's lives.
Now what would cause me to feel that way? Hmmmm(1) being threatened by someone so I'd want to stay with many people around me. That's all I can think of. Anyone else...look at it from your perspective.
There is a difference between the accidental death of a child in a home....and an abduction of a child in a home. If you read alot about child abductions, you will see that the parents almost never leave the home. They are always hopeful that the child will return. They usually hold onto that home like a shrine...waiting to welcome back their son or daughter.
One mom said, "How will he know where we are if we move? We can't leave. We have to be here. This is where he knows we are."
So sad....
Have you ever had your home broken into? Many years ago my business was broken into and it was a very emotional time for myself and my employees. I couldn't sit in my office and not think about how someone had raided my space. I would actually would get shivers. I had to replace my chair because I just couldn't stand the thought of sitting in the same chair that the jerk who broke in did. Before this happened if anyone ever told me that I would feel this way I would've thought they were crazy.
This wasn't the first incident for them. Their car had been broken into recently and it bothered them enough to save the cigarette butts or to remember that the thief had left them there. Now their baby girl was taken right out of her bed. There would be no way that I could ever live there again and feel safe. Even if Baby Lisa comes home safe I would still have to leave the home. Someone uninvited came into my the only space that I consider "safe"...it is no longer safe to me.
BBM. They locked the vehicle, that didn't stop a thief yet it didn't 'bother them' enough to remember to lock the door to their house? I can certainly understand why some might find their credibility lacking.
JMO
Have you ever had your home broken into? Many years ago my business was broken into and it was a very emotional time for myself and my employees. I couldn't sit in my office and not think about how someone had raided my space. I would actually would get shivers. I had to replace my chair because I just couldn't stand the thought of sitting in the same chair that the jerk who broke in did. Before this happened if anyone ever told me that I would feel this way I would've thought they were crazy.
This wasn't the first incident for them. Their car had been broken into recently and it bothered them enough to save the cigarette butts or to remember that the thief had left them there. Now their baby girl was taken right out of her bed. There would be no way that I could ever live there again and feel safe. Even if Baby Lisa comes home safe I would still have to leave the home. Someone uninvited came into my the only space that I consider "safe"...it is no longer safe to me.