Oh my... i never should have said anything!
I was trying to make a point...just saying, you just never know what is really going on.
Believe me when I say if you knew my friend, you'd love her.
On the outside, you'd see nothing but a warm, funny, compassionate, beautiful woman.
She donates time to all kinds of organizations, is constantly doing things for other people in need and...well, I'm not going to keep trying to defend her very private actions. You will all think what you want and you have that right. I don't approve either but she is my friend and I love her. There is a past, a very long past between she and he that I nor you can even begin to unravel.
And if you knew the wife, you wouldn't feel so sorry for her. There's a reason why my friend has her kids all of the time...she can't be bothered. And she treats her husband like dirt. I can't stand to be around her...don't like her one bit. I don't think my friend is wrong because of what she's doing to the wife. I could care less about her feelings. She's a selfish, negative, ugly spirited woman. I feel it's wrong because of the kids invloved on both sides and for my friend's husband.
There's a whole story there that is not meant for this thread. I was just trying to make a point.
But I take no offense to your opinions. It is a very sore subject and I would think that y'all had no morals if you didn't think that way at first glance but there is so much more to it.
OK, back to the topic at hand....