HatesSociopaths
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Geez, why didnt he just give the boys to her? If he wanted to move? He still would of had to support them either way! stupid!!!
Stupid for sure. But also, a tremendous amount of power and control involved, IMO.
Plus, I wonder how hard AH was fighting to keep those boys at that point. She's been involved with Grant since the boys were very young (a few have purported perhaps since before the youngest was even born), and has heard over how unfit and unstable LA is as a mother.
If she has any shred of decency in her body, she likely felt pretty protective of those children, especially in light of all the allegations GH was throwing out there. Hence, another problem for Grant. He knows he was full of it, but can't just pull a 180 and relinquish custody. How would he explain that to AH? "False alarm - things are better now!" doesn't quite work, and you can't exactly admit to the mother of your newborn daughter that you were manipulating the system to interfere with your ex's custody rights.
I just wonder how that would work. Assuming there were a time that AH truly believed they were acting in the best interest of the kids, how could GH change that view without showing his true colors? Just a thought...
I agree and from the info available on GH, his narcissistic ways would not have allowed LA to win this battle - it would make him wrong and her right, something his fragile ego could not afford. He could not accept failure to control the custody situation in the way he had wanted all along. Destructive acts (murder) then followed to try to achieve his plans.