It just strikes me that anything the Rhodens had would make others jealous. But that's the nature of the beast, isn't it? Makes no sense, and is all filtered through individual perceptions.
I see them as a close family with a lot of love. I hope I'm seeing them as they really were. And not something I want to see based on my *own* perceptions. Their stuff? Gave me an anxiety attack looking at those pictures. But if they were happy, hey, more power to them.
Just some ramblings ...
I also feel they were a close and loving family. Being able to get along with an ex (to me) shows they were. Who knows what goes on in the minds of "others"? Jealousy is a ugly monster, just like murder is.