I'm still on post #301, but I wanted to share this while it's in my head freshly....
I have a theory (and no, it's not bunnies.) that if correct would account for the surveillance videos, and link them to all of the charges at once. At one point there was speculation that SM called HE from a pay phone. This was largely enforced by the image of a pay phone being used as a backdrop in the news report with the info about their affair. Many believed it was LE & the MSM's way of scaring the Ms. It also would make sense if you PLANNED the kidnapping to use a payphone so it didn't link back to you.
I'm wondering if the first call was from SM at that payphone to HE. and then HE called him back on his cell, ruining their plans. Not my main theory though. My theory is that TM took SM to call HE from a payphone to get her to meet him. While he was calling her TM may have been controlling him to make sure he said what SHE wanted him to say. I can think of a way to control him that would be devious, right up TM's alley it seems, and be indecent exposure. A way which I can think of no man at all doing anything to jeopardize a wrong move.
Perhaps when the number of the pay phone came up on HE's bill LE requested tapes from the location of the pay phone. That being the surveillance footage that triggered the warrant. It would also show SM initiating contact to HE, catching him in a lie, leading to obstruction. It may have also shown TM engaging in her... act of threatening him with dismemberment if ya catch my drift, leading to the indecent exposure acts.
I could also picture TM making SM do something in view of one of HE's poster or billboard. Kind of mocking him with it?