Busylady
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So you think everyone will look at 90% of both families in this way because the majority have records or living with someone with lengthy records? I don't think a fight at 18 makes you a violent person, I don't think old drug charges make you a drug addict or a dealer, I don't believe allegations of child abuse (if proven false)make you a child abuser, however all these things about RC have been stated over and over as current fact that this is what he is now. Thats what I find to be extremely sad.
I know it is hard for both of them and would not be comfortable. If one commits a crime and is arrested for it...public record. That is kinda sucky for people who change their lives, but that's how it is. I am sure if someone has a lengthy history of being a law abiding contributing member of society past mistakes would be viewed as just that.