It seems to me that Cindy, through example, taught both of her children the importance of holding down a job. She's not the one with a history of unemployment and/or letting other people support her.
Nope, you are correct. She's just the
enabler.
The person who makes it so sick people can
stay sick! I suppose it depends on who you are which offense you find to be worse but personally? I tend to have issue with enablers.. at least the loser is pretty transparent in their loser
ism's they don't work too hard to cover it up, they don't much
care what anyone thinks, as long as they get whatever it is that makes them happy. It's how losers
work (remember, I used to be one) as long as they have themselves a good enabler? It doesn't even matter- they can continue with their behaviors and
far worse for
years on end.
You are correct, she had a job.. she was the
only person in the home who did have a job. Someone was doing the enabling and it certainly wasn't Casey or George.. or Lee, off parking his cars for baseball games or whatever he does. Sadly, "through example" as you say,
this is
obviously what she actually taught them.
