I didn't say only men participated in online bullying. Please stop twisting my words and deflecting from the point I made.
People's responses to Nicole's bullying were vastly different when they realized the perpetrators were going to be held accountable. Everyone went from "boys will be boys" to "women are horrible bullies too!" This reaction doesn't line up with all the excuses people were posting when they assumed the perps were men.
It's sending the message that when men are entitled to be abusive and hateful, and that it's okay to blame women when they are.
In the end, it doesn't matter who anyone thinks the perps are - only a full investigation into the poster's IP tracing back to their computer is going to be able to prove anything.
Not at all. I don't think anyone here has the opinion that online bullying, harassment, and slander is nothing more than "boys will be boys" - at least I sure hope not. Online harassment destroys reputations, interferes with careers, and damages relationships. I can't imagine that anyone would view that type of destructive behavior as "boys will be boys" - except perhaps those who perpetrate the harassment.