dizzychick
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was BR involved? - YES
My two cents...it is 5 a.m. and I haven't been asleep yet...so I will be short and hope to proof before hitting send.If Burke is under the bus, his parents put him on the road and got in the driver's seat. I do believe 9yo Burke killed his sister and I 100% believe he was not morally responsible, because his parents ignored the escalation that was occurring in their extremely dysfunctional household.
Where he earns my disdain is participating in the lie now, as a nearly 30 year old man. I'd give him a pass for maintaining the subterfuge if he did it in silence, in gratitude and deference to his parents' efforts and out of respect for JonBenet - to not publicly lie about his guilt. But he shows his lack of moral fibre by getting involved in the public deception now. Yes, he was raised by terrible people but at some point the responsibility passes onto the individual and 29 is well past that point - otherwise we could just blame a long chain back for the circumstances that led to JonBenet's murder.
Where he earns my disdain is participating in the lie now, as a nearly 30 year old man.
No, that never happened in this case, and it’s always been a problem to me. And I understand [John] Ramsey’s situation, and only wish he’d been more cooperative up front so that all of us, including law enforcement, could have gotten past looking at him and his wife. Because quite frankly, if you look at the evidence made available to the public, as well as the conduct of the parents, i.e. refusing in most respects to cooperate with the cops, not give independent interviews with law enforcement, not take polygraphs, to hire a PR firm to handle your image, it seems self-serving. It doesn’t seem to me that that helps JonBenet, or it doesn’t help find who killed JonBenet.
If Burke is under the bus, his parents put him on the road and got in the driver's seat. I do believe 9yo Burke killed his sister and I 100% believe he was not morally responsible, because his parents ignored the escalation that was occurring in their extremely dysfunctional household.
Where he earns my disdain is participating in the lie now, as a nearly 30 year old man. I'd give him a pass for maintaining the subterfuge if he did it in silence, in gratitude and deference to his parents' efforts and out of respect for JonBenet - to not publicly lie about his guilt. But he shows his lack of moral fibre by getting involved in the public deception now. Yes, he was raised by terrible people but at some point the responsibility passes onto the individual and 29 is well past that point - otherwise we could just blame a long chain back for the circumstances that led to JonBenet's murder.
I just wanted to ask a question:
Which pieces of evidence point directly to Burke being the murderer and rules out anyone else?
If he admitted to killing his sister it would mean that he would have to re-pay all the money he received in damages from the tabloids, (His parents sued around 7 or 8 tabloids when BR was about 13 years old).
Of course he's now suing Werner Spitz and if he gets a big payout (please God, don't let that happen) that will ensure he will never admit to the crime.
Rather than being upset by accusations I suspect the R's are rather happy because it means another law suit - more money.
The damage is done, JonBenet is dead, the money spent on the investigation is gone, the law suits paid out - I don't expect Burke as an adult to pay financially or otherwise for the choices adults made around his actions as a child. It should have been dealt with properly at the time, their community would have likely known what had happened but the Ramsey influence could have prevented this becoming one of the biggest true crime stories ever. They could have moved and began a new life and this would not dog him. He didn't get to make that choice so I don't morally expect he should now confess and have that all come down on his head. I do expect that he shouldn't be out there spinning the lies and pursuing further law suits.
Each of those cases was settled out of court. Not one of them went to trial. That means that whatever the settlement terms were, they were agreed upon by both parties. Finding the facts to be different from what could be proven at the time of the settlement doesn't change or alter what had been agreed to (by both parties) previously.If he admitted to killing his sister it would mean that he would have to re-pay all the money he received in damages from the tabloids, (His parents sued around 7 or 8 tabloids when BR was about 13 years old).
Of course he's now suing Werner Spitz and if he gets a big payout (please God, don't let that happen) that will ensure he will never admit to the crime.
Rather than being upset by accusations I suspect the R's are rather happy because it means another law suit - more money.
There is no direct evidence pointing specifically to anyone thanks to the complete contamination of the crime scene coupled with the fact that the only viable potential suspects lived in the house. However, many believe he is the best suspect by exclusion. There was no intruder, so that means one of three certain people murdered her, or at least set off the violence that ended in her death. I've always believed he made the most sense because I have trouble seeing the parents either killing her together or one covering for the other. But I can see them both deciding that night they'd cover for their son and Patsy's only remaining child.
Over the years as more information has emerged, I've become convinced it was Burke. And it would seem the Grand Jury who heard evidence for many months - evidence we have not seen - came to the same conclusion as they recommended both parents be charged with aiding and abetting the killer after the fact and keeping their child in a dangerous situation leading to her death. But not the murder itself.
Weighing in: I've found nothing that gives me any doubt.Thanks for the response, HarmonyE. I do agree that Burke seems to be the most likely suspect given all the information we have, and if the intruder theory is discounted.
Most people seem to be BDI on here, so I'd just like to ask: is there anything (no matter how small) that gives you doubt of the BDI theory?
Thanks for the response, HarmonyE. I do agree that Burke seems to be the most likely suspect given all the information we have, and if the intruder theory is discounted.
Most people seem to be BDI on here, so I'd just like to ask: is there anything (no matter how small) that gives you doubt of the BDI theory?
Thanks for the response, HarmonyE. I do agree that Burke seems to be the most likely suspect given all the information we have, and if the intruder theory is discounted.
Most people seem to be BDI on here, so I'd just like to ask: is there anything (no matter how small) that gives you doubt of the BDI theory?
Of course he knows the truth. Even if he doesn't know everything, he knows who did it and why. There's no way in hell he could've read that ransom note and not immediately realized it was Patsy talking to him. If he doesn't know what's going on, why is he doing spring cleaning in the basement while the cops are there?It does happen.
Do you think John Ramsey knows the truth about the murder? If he does and Patsy is solely responsible for the murder and the horrific staging, do you think he would cover for her? Want to stay married to her? Want her to raise his youngest surviving child? What if she went "psycho" again?
You can turn this around and ask the same thing. If Burke killed her, he's crazy and needs help. Would they want a child who bashes heads in during snacks in their house? Imagine family meals for starters. YOu would be able to cut the tension with a knife. Also imagine the two of them going to bed every night knowing they have to sleep while the lunatic could come in there at any time and do to them what he did to her.This is basically where I land. Could Patsy have done it? Yes, but I cant see John covering for her. They were hardly lovebirds; it seemed more of a business relationship. If she was that crazy, she needed help. Why would he want her around his surviving child when hed already lost two?
She was being abused by someone so even if simply by default that places John on the list of suspects in that department.I know some people think John went along because Patsy would rat him out as a child molester, but there is no evidence to support this allegation against him
And overturn the apple cart? Not likely.If John was the murderer, I think Patsy would have impulsively and instinctively turned on him in a New York minute.
Many people made money off of this girl's corpse. If Burke didn't do it and I obviously don't think he did, he has every right to sue for being accused of her murder. While I don't think he deserves millions for the allegation, on the list of people who made money off of Jonbenet, Burke is last on the list.Even if he didn't do it, the killing of his sister has turned into a nice little earner.
A college kid carrying his clothes. No big deal.It looks to me like he's holding a big towel.
Meth....or cocaine.... and pain pills can also be uppers even though they are technically synthetic heroin. Oxy users can experience cotton mouth...really bad.I recall seeing an interview with Barbara Walters or someone of that stature and he seemed clearly on some kind of drug - perhaps cocaine? He kept repeatedly licking his lips in a chewing motion, like he had extreme dry mouth. I just wondered if he'd had a drug habit for a while and if that might factor into the less than perfect hidden side of the Ramsey family that was kept away from the public eye
None.Which pieces of evidence point directly to Burke being the murderer and rules out anyone else?
Absolutely. It shows the dysfunction ran deep and that none of the people in this family really cared much for her. She had older siblings who basically just moved on with their life immediately. No one was an advocate for justice.I also have a bit of disdain for other siblings too if they know something and kept silent. Maybe they're doing it for John. But none of them behave as a family of a girl who was murdered by an intruder. I think this is one of the most maddening things of this case for me.
Me neither. Granted there is no smoking gun here, but he is the only one who makes complete sense to me. Always has. But since learning of the GJ's indictments and now watching him interviewed both then and now, I feel more strongly about it than ever before.Weighing in: I've found nothing that gives me any doubt.
Would you still say that if he is innocent?
Well if he is innocent because it was an intruder, it is not lies. However I find the intruder theory implausible. If he knew one of his parents is responsible I believe he should share that information, instead of doubling down, so he is even more reprehensible than the situation I believe he is in now, which is lying about the crime he committed as a child.
Awhile back DeDee or Olivia posted a story from someone who witnessed Patsy doing some bat poop crazy things in public. It was a perfect description of someone riding one of those pill highs..
http://womenincrimeink.blogspot.com...howComment=1241688240000#c5579343533036210003What did they witness? Just curious.