I will try my hardest to respect people for their opinions... With that said, I do not think that the Anthony's should be attacked or have their character questioned by people on this site.
Their behavior has been strange, and at times outright despicable. But, none of us knows what they have been through. None of us have had to choose between defending their daughter and defending a granddaughter they had already lost. None of us know what went on behind closed doors. None of us know what they privately think or how they feel.
For all we know, they might totally believe that Casey is guilty of murdering Caylee. They might feel that they have already lost Caylee and they don't want to lose Casey too. Or, maybe the Casey they knew wasn't capable of murder and they are going through some major cognitive dissonance right now. Maybe they believe Casey wasn't capable of murder, therefore she didn't commit murder.
We all HAVE NO IDEA. But, I guarantee you that they don't believe they won. They aren't happy their granddaughter died so that they can get paid $20,000 for interviews and go on cruises. They aren't happy their granddaughter died so that they can sit through police interviews, depositions, hearings, and the trial for three years. They aren't happy that their granddaughter died and they have to face the reality that their daughter played a role in it. They don't want to face the reality that the daughter they raised murdered the thing most important to both of them.
I guarantee you that if they were given the chance, they would trade all of the money in the world to get to spend one more moment with Caylee.
They loved Caylee more than Casey did. They did not murder her. They did not help her dispose of the body. And if they helped to destroy evidence, I don't believe they did it with the knowledge that their daughter was an evil child murderer.
Casey is the one to blame in all of this, no matter what contributed to the monster she turned out to be. None of the rest of this family wanted this, and they never thought that their actions would ever contribute to this.