nicola
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I dont think that anyones actions after a horrific event, such as this, could be seen as 'normal' anyway. Everyone deals with grief differently you cant pigeon hole people and say, 'well, they didnt act right, they didnt cry in the right place or they could have been filmed throughout'.
I wonder what some of you would make of a video of a Chinese Wake? As they celebrate the life of the deceased, throw money into the grave, and yes they are sometimes smiling whilst doing it. Although even this depends on the individual. The point im trying to make is everyone (no matter where they come from) is different and it is unfair to demonise someone because thier behaviour doesnt appear to be 'normal'. After all what is normal in this circumstance?
I wonder what some of you would make of a video of a Chinese Wake? As they celebrate the life of the deceased, throw money into the grave, and yes they are sometimes smiling whilst doing it. Although even this depends on the individual. The point im trying to make is everyone (no matter where they come from) is different and it is unfair to demonise someone because thier behaviour doesnt appear to be 'normal'. After all what is normal in this circumstance?