'I think Dr Nanette Rogers referring to Simon as Erin’s ex-husband was purposeful, Erin hated that Simon has moved on'- Great pickup, this is definitely deliberate on the part of Dr Rogers.
I think you're spot on here- this is bigger than the money issues, this is about control. Control over Simon, his family, the narrative that Simon is a 'deadbeat dad'. It was so easy to have those Facebook friends- they only ever heard how she was the victim, and EP could again control the narrative.
It seems incredibly complex- I really do think she hated Simon, resented him, loathed everything about him- his inability to keep his own home tidy, the amount of time he devoted to bible classes. I recall reading that he also didn't help much around the home when they were married. But why not then be free of him? Why not let him go and forge her own life? She certainly had the means to do so. Would love to see an evaluation of EP by a forensic psychiatrist/psychologist.
All MOO.