It could have been hard for her to take when she had been helping her husband financially, and generously buying houses for his extended family.
She also lent hundreds of thousands of dollars to his siblings, without interest, with flexible repayment requirements.
And his name was kept on all the titles since the separation
By doing so, it was suggested that Patterson, in essence, shared her inheritance with him (due to the financial benefit of being listed on a property title).
Despite the couple being separated, Patterson included her estranged husband’s name on both house titles as a gesture of ‘’good will” as they were still open to reconciling
And then the shock comes when she notices her husband has put down 'separated' on his tax return for the first time, and the impact that may have on their tax arrangements.
All this wouldn't have made her happy, she probably felt used, like a money pit
Money/finance would be important to her
They had normal incomes, any extras would come from her inheritance, $2 million around 2006.
He also stopped contributing to things like school and medical expenses for his children “on the advice of Centrelink” and on the separation was listed, he was required to pay child support for the sum of $40 per month…
Patterson received more inheritance money when her mother passed away in 2019.
*The court heard Patterson used the money to buy two more properties - a Mount Waverley apartment, in Melbourne, and the Gibson Street home in Leongatha (where she held the 2023 lunch).
Patterson told him the move would impact the family tax benefit the couple had previously enjoyed, and she was obliged to now claim child support.
'She was upset about it,' Simon said.
On July 16, during a church service, Patterson allegedly asked her in-laws over for lunch, the court heard previously.
She also asked Simon to attend, despite the couple's relationship being on the decline.
* Erin Patterson grew up in the Melbourne suburb of Glen Waverley with her sister Ceinwen, and parents Heather and Eitan.
Her father was a government worker and her mother Dr Heather Scutter became a Monash University lecturer in 19th century adult literature and a renowned children's book critic and author of articles and reviews on children's literature.
Erin married Gippsland engineer and basketball coach Simon Patterson, and the couple had two children.
The Pattersons moved to Western Australia for a time and ran a book shop in a southwestern town before returning to country Victoria.
Erin took over the running of the Burra Flyer, the local newsletter previously edited by Don and Gail Patterson in their hometown of Korumburra.
Simon Patterson, a talented amateur photographer who travelled to Africa and other overseas countries to pursue his craft, regularly contributed to the publication.
Erin became a stay-at-home mother as her children grew up, although it has since been alleged she looked down on contributors from her local community to the newsletter.
One poster to the forum, since deactivated, claimed Erin had worked as an accountant and with the Department of Defence, stating 'she's meticulous and very smart, her whole family are extremely smart people.'
Erin Patterson and her sister Ceinwen Scutter inherited the million dollar Eden property and reportedly enough money for plum property investments which made Erin independently wealthy.
One of Erin's friends, who contributed to the online forum discussion about her in the wake of the lunch, disputed reports that Erin had been keen to get back together with her deeply religious husband.
Instead, it was claimed, Erin had initiated the split.
'She's an atheist as far as I know ... she was very unhappy in her marriage and felt like a single parent (with) "my husband isn't pulling his weight" type commentary,' the friend stated.
'We didn't hear much about Simon other than he was never at home. Never helping her. She was very close about this ... She left him. She didn't want to get back with him. '
The mother is accused of killing three people with poisonous death cap mushrooms.
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Wealthy mother-of-two Erin Patterson is in custody after her privileged life unravelled when her marriage collapsed and she allegedly served a fatal mushroom lunch.
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