I'm only speaking of them as victims within the context of their son killing 3 people and then killing himself. I have no idea what happened with their divorce and have said on here before that I am uncomfortable speculating since we don't know other than to say it was obviously very bitter.Yes I agree however AS claims his victimization is caused by his ex-wife. And reportedly she fears for her life according to court records, a victim of criminal harassment. Does that make each of them victims of each other? It certainly is a very sad saga all around but not enough information is known for me to judge and frankly, I admire Bs mother and grandmother for not engaging in a media battle with AS. I think that’s what he’s looking for yet their primary focus at this time must be dealing with their grief.
I agree that Bryer's mom and grandma (and the entire McLeod family) are wiser to have been quiet, though people on here have bashed them for that, too. Can't win either way, really.
That being said, as I have said on here before, I think some of the reason why Bryer's dad talks to the media is because he is lonely but is a talker. I don't think it was right for him to drudge up old feuds with his ex-wife and her family in the media, but I can't really judge him for trying to process his confusion over what Bryer did and for doing so publicly, even though, yeah, it probably wasn't a wise decision to do so in the long run.