Hmm they hadn't slept together for a long time. Well who'd have guessed
She obviously grabbed what she could while she could. Starting with the compensation from 'the people' for her floors, which wouldn't have been a simple phone call request. I think that incident put a cloud over her head and from there it was down hill. She'll forever be thought of as putting herself above all else.
I'm wondering if people expect her to hold a press conference or to agree to an interview or if she should perhaps make a simple verbal or written statement to the press. I'm guessing that many, like myself would have liked to hear her express any form of sympathy to the victim's/families. Anything. She's not a dopey back woods person, she's intelligent and accustomed to making speeches. People are aware of her standing and her abilities and perhaps that's what makes her silence so loud. She may well have been advised to keep quiet, but that decision would be hers and she would not be admitting to any guilt. Again, the decision is hers.
She really owes nothing. Unless they were directly involved, spouses are not legally responsible when their partners break the law of course. Gosh, the prisons would be filled with wives & husbands. But where they're morally responsible, weeeel that's a different story.
My husband played golf a LOT, went to gyms a real lot and had a super lot of late business meetings/discussions etc. Now I never called him up on whether he was really at golf all those weekends or at the gym or business junk. If I had to call him it would have been pretty important and in the last few yrs it would be on the mobile of course. Never land phones. So in essence, I know he wasn't but he could indeed have been robbing banks, homes or far worse. I never felt the need to check up on him and he never did with me. For that matter, I could have been up to anything just like my hubby.
So, re the jogs. My own father yrs ago jogged every night after work. Every single night and weekends he was a swimming fanatic. Well my mother wouldn't have known if he was off murdering people either. He was simply a jogging and swimming fanatic.
Now all the boxes. Hmm in the new place I'd think she'd have gotten to them eventually. That's all I'm guessing there.
And despite all her horror and shock in the immediate beginning got/agreed with her lawyer/s to action quick smart re the properties in her favour. So there's no apparent sympathy, regret or care, except for herself and probably her cat, tinkabell or whatever.
I'm not doubting the woman is at the border of a break-down. I'm not doubting she's in misery. I am doubting though just how much she cares about anybody except herself. I understand she is back at work. Ahum, work can be therapy but hell, for somebody who is at the end of their tether, about to fall in a heap then it's just not feasible imo.
I'm finding this woman a real puzzle. A 'meme puzzle but a puzzle nevertheless. Everyone who knows her says she's wonderful. Well gee, I don't know anybody as wonderful as all that. Can't think of one person.
All each of us can do is try to put ourselves in her shoes for even a few seconds. What would we do besides fall in a heap. I think most know. And I think that's why so many are wincing.
..... I think she is lacking shame and humility. Same qualities she's probably renowned for in her circle. She is licking her wounds with cream.
