Incorrectly paraphrased, at that.
And no, that's not what the title referred to. I'm always fascinated by those who get locked into a narrative and then try to fit outsized facts into that narrative.
John Ramsey strikes me as a bit of a narcissist as well, but that doesn't translate into being a murderer. His book, which isn't especially well-written, is a timeline from the day of the murder onward. Throughout the book, he returns to special memories of JonBenet and the things she did. He talks about his grief over losing his child hundreds of times, and it's written from two perspectives, both his and Patsy's.