Beautifully written...I, for one, hope the children inherit and Betsy's mother is cared for. (Something for the 20-year Hawaiian housekeeper caregiver too!) If the estate is 80 million (don't know where I got that figure) that is more than enough for all, including dogs and charities. I choose to believe the children did their best to care for and be in touch with their parents. How the parents responded to those efforts, I can't say. But no one asks to be born, and many an inheritance has softened the difficulties of childhood. I believe as horrible as this whole story is, it is doubly horrible for the children who must continue to live with the consequences, accusations, and media attention.
Sadly thats what i see too. To have so much and not even mention them is astonishing.
Even in my family despite the pain drama and resentment, the wills were always predictably even distribution to all children, or their beneficiaries.
That said I personally believe that we should honor the wishes of the dead even when it sucks. I would also be interested to see if he had other ways of funding his children throughout their life outside the will. I
I wondered about that too, no provision for her Mom? I guess she never considered the chance she would pass before her. But isn’t a will usually set up with those possibilities in mind?Yeah, some Wills do seem unfair.
I don't think there is any doubt BA died before GH so a "simultaneous death clause" wouldn't be needed in his Will. She cannot inherit under GH's Will (although I am not an attorney!) And the 90-day clause in her Will would obviously keep him from inheriting from her. We don't know about GH's trusts, of course.
His oldest "child" who supposedly has hired an attorney and may challenge the Will is apparently 65. Gene Hackman's 3 Children: All About Christopher, Elizabeth and Leslie
I don't know that any child, especially an elderly one, has a "right" to an inheritance. And it does appear GH had less of a relationship with that child in past decades than with his daughters. That's their business of course but it may affect legal claims beyond what GH specified.
I do wonder if anything will go for BA's mother's care. BA obviously would have expected to outlive her, I'd think.
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Your nephew sounds like an amazing person. I agree with you about some things that need to be challenged. This story reminds me of Joan Crawford ( Mommy Dearest)My aunt and uncle adopted three children. She wasn't one of my nicest or kindest aunts. And growing up she was a demanding parent. Anyway...her husband died and left his estate to her and when she died she decided to leave all her money to her husband's nephew (his blood nephew).
We were all shocked. It wasn't right. Altho we were shocked we weren't surprised.
He took care of the estate and in about 90 days when the last bill was paid he divided the remaining money between my three cousins.
We all couldn't believe it. When I asked him about it he told me, "...it was the right thing to do. That money doesn't belong to me it belongs to them."
This only my meager 2 cents but sometimes things need to be challenged....
One would think. Of course, we don't know the mother's financial situation (nor, I admit, is it really our business.) Although BA is apparently her only child and did stay in touch (albeit in ways some find objectionable), perhaps the mother inherited money from other relatives along the way. The Hackmans signed their Wills in 2005 & the mother would have been on her early 70s then while BA was 46. The mom probably didn't have Alzheimer's in 2005 but you'd think an attorney would have suggested that unexpected things can and do happen.I wondered about that too, no provision for her Mom? I guess she never considered the chance she would pass before her. But isn’t a will usually set up with those possibilities in mind?
That would have been referring to his first wife, not BA.The DM quotes a longtime friend as saying during the marriage GH worked in bars and restaurants before becoming a success in Hollywood. His wife apparently worked in a bank. When they first met he was still in the Marines.
Yes, I'm aware of that. As can be seen, the post I quoted was removed by the mods after I posted so that may not have been clear.That would have been referring to his first wife, not BA.
I wondered about that too, no provision for her Mom? I guess she never considered the chance she would pass before her. But isn’t a will usually set up with those possibilities in mind?
You did read what I was responding too right? In addition to the OP's musing in the last sentence. I had also read that her estate will clear any medical debt which may exist, then be disbursed among the charities of her choosing. But since you jumped off my post to add your own thoughts, I'll add a caveat to mine - JMO.I hadn’t noticed it was confirmed anywhere that Betsy is financially responsible for her mom’s care. Maybe the woman has financial resources of her own?
Besides who pays for what generally isn’t the type of private information released to the public.