ITA! I feel like because there's not enough solid evidence to say Terri is one way or another, some people are trying to normalize her behavior, say it's just ugly coping or anyone would do it under stress. I have been under stress myself, nearly hit rock bottom several times, may not have ever had a murder over my head, but still, I would NEVER do the things she did no matter how stressed out I am. I understand that she's innocent until proven guilty and people want to have sympathy for her, but that doesn't mean her odd, suspicious behavior is suddenly normal. That's not sympathy, that's putting blinders on increasingly erratic behavior because a person doesn't want to believe she did this.
And that can go, depending on the person, all the way to enabling. Look at the Casey Anthony case. Still, to this day, they blame everyone else but Casey for what she's done. It just couldn't have been Casey even though there's still a dead body smell in her car and she was the last to be seen with Caylee. I sometimes wonder if we had a dead body smell in a car here if that would be enough for some people to finally say that maybe she did do this, and maybe her behavior isn't normal, everyday ugly coping behavior.
Um no, it's not. Normal people do NOT cope the way she has. And she hasn't been coping, she's been using people to only serve herself to get out of responsibility for something, whether it's that she hurt Kyron or something else, some other secret she doesn't want to come out. But let me be clear, her behavior is NO WAY normal. Not even a little. I wouldn't let my stepdaughter or anyone in my family get away with behavior like that like it was normal and just a coping mechanism. It is abhorrent and unacceptable behavior, and if we as society start normalizing behavior like this...well wait, we already have. That's why we're so messed up as a society today and kids keep suffering and dying.
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For my part, I do not "normalize" anything here because I feel sympathy for TH. I am not blinded by some irrational desire to have her be innocent. I have a mind, and I am not blinded, befuddled or willfully ignorant, AFAIK. I am an educated and reasonable human being, in my estimation, and I don't believe my opinions are simply rooted in being misguided - I just don't see enough evidence for me to get my pitchfork out. Perhaps if I were more emotional, I would be ready to chuck a match on the pyre. As it is, I'm not ready to do that.
I fully understand that it is highly probable that TH did this, due to being a close acquaintance and the last known person to see Kyron. If she is proven guilty, than lock her away with my blessings. But, as it is, I am merely a rubber necker to this tragedy, and I am not terribly interested in spewing venom on someone based on second hand, filtered accounts. Until LE speaks, I have every right to reserve judgement beyond what I have opined in this case so far.
If that is some irrational hysteria on my part, then I am not aware of it. (Though, I guess, if I am just being an emotional puppet, I wouldn't be aware of it, so I guess I'm just buggered.)
ETA: The main reason I am particularly noncommittal in this thread is because, ultimately, I remain unconvinced that pursing my lips and tsk tsking TH's sexual proclivities would really help me understand this case any better. (No offence intended to those who think it will help them - it's just not in my field of priorities, I guess.)
ETA2: To be blunt, I
know it's annoying when people don't get fired up over something we think they should. Honestly, I understand that, and have felt it myself. I am simply trying to point out there are options for some of us other than "guilty" or "innocent" right now - there is merely reserving the fire, which is what I have opted to do, leaving my personal suspicions out for now. If LE names her or arrests her,
then we will have something to go on. Until then, I am just waiting, and hoping.
All simply MOO, of course.